Please give me some tips and nice way of asking her out for a lunch. I was raised as a shy guy as a child. please help.
2006-12-24 14:45:27 · 15 answers · asked by shashi c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pinch her butt.
2006-12-24 14:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know that you are scared of rejection, but that shouldn't stop you from asking a gril out. Relieve some pressure by telling yourself positive things and telling yourself all of your good qualities. There is obviously more than you than just being shy. Ask her by saying, "hey, I am interested in getting to know you, would you like to have some lunch tomorrow?" or you can say "hey, would you like to have lunch with me sometime this week?" or "If this makes you feel better just can tell her from the start that you are shy guy. Well good luck with everything and I hope she says SURE!! if not, do not worry, i'm glad you tried!! And you will have many opportunities to meet someone else that would love to spend time with u ! :)
2006-12-24 14:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, one of the best tips I can offer is to try to make her laugh - I've noticed it works with a lot of girls, and even as shy as I am, it helps to "break the ice". Also, just be yourself. If you're willing to pet a strange dog without fear, even knowing there's a possibility it could bite you, talking to a girl shouldn't be as hard as it seems. But then, I know your pain - I've had this same problem many times, and I realized each time that it hurts more to stay silent and lose them forever than to speak up and be rejected or humiliated - rejection isn't the end of the world, and humiliation eventually dies, but the pain of never knowing remains for eternity.
2006-12-24 15:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by MC Wild Joker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is it really so difficult to ask some one out to lunch? what is the worst thing that could happen, she could say no. This is not the only girl in the world, we are like buses a new one will be along in 15 minutes. get over being shy, by asking a lot of informational questions, that way you learn more become more comfortable and can speak with knowledge.
2006-12-24 14:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rejection isn't the end of the challenge. Sometimes a girl can be charmed into changing her mind! Be confident and smile if she says no. Ask her questions like 'what time is it?' and be flirty by looking her in the eyes and giving a sexy grin and say 'thanks!' and walk away! Ask her for a pen or piece of paper and do the same thing and tell her something like...'wow! you smell great' or
'that's a great color on you!' trust me, females love subtle flirting and to be chased and NOT caught until they choose to be! So invest the time it takes to 'win her over' and you will enjoy it more as well!
Good Luck.
2006-12-24 15:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Knuckledragger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your nice, you don't need to know how to be nice or approach nicely.
And also, you either have the courage to talk to her or you let her walk out of her life forever.
Trust me, when i was in highschool i had a friend, whom i loved. I would have done anything for her. I was there for her when she needed a shoulder to cry on, even if i had to skip a class to be with her to talk to her, and spend time jjust us, I did it.
Even though i was failing in my classes.
Yet i never had the guts nor confidence to tell how that i really loved her and wanted to be with her (and she also felt same for me ) but i never did , and now we dont see each other , and i wonder what might have been
2006-12-24 14:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by stuart_slider 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude im the same way to a tee and ive let more fish go then u can shak a sdtick at u just have to ask the gods of love to give u a chance beleve me thier is one u will know it when it happends take it when it does use u tallents girls think u like them if u give them things make it cool thow seehow she takes it then ask her out theren with the cooth tell her ull know!
2006-12-24 14:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello _____. Look, I don't want to waste your time but, I'm really feeling you and I want to take you out. Nothing more or nothing less than having a good time. That sounds good, right?
You say it how you wanna say but be honest and to the point. Be yourself. A good salesman seals the deal buy asking a question at the end that suggests a yes answer. Don't be nervous. The worst she can say is no.
2006-12-24 14:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by DALE M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just hey wanna get a bit to eat. Doesnt have to look like u are going out on a official date. As u hang around more girls ull get over ur fears. Good luck!
2006-12-24 14:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you just go up yo her. tell her you have been wanting to ask her out latly but didnt know how to start. just say you would like to take her put forlunch to a nice resterant and would like to know if she would accept. all she can do is say no. if she does just ask her if she would be interested at a later date. she might be as shy as you.
2006-12-24 15:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't ask her out or any girl unless you gain that self confidence and love for yourself. Don't overdo it though.
What if you don't have these and she rejected you? Will i see you in the gutter after?
Think about it.
2006-12-24 14:52:15 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋