Ok My Ex and Me broke up on Thanksgiving. We went out for two weeks and then we broke up. And ever since then I have been depressed and I have an empty feeling in my heart and I really like him and he said that he would never go out with me again. And I just can't seem to let go. What should I do?? And there are no other guys that will go out with me. Trust I know that don't ask how I know.
2006-12-24 14:38:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He liked me alot and I liked him and we got into a big fight and then we broke up. And he was the only guy that actually gave me a chance none of the other guys did. He was that one guy that cared more than anyone about me.
2006-12-24 14:46:34 · update #1
Girl I had the same problem ur goin' though.I broke up with my boyfriend because my friends kept tellin' me to ( shouldnt listened to them) so about a week later my so call friend went with him. And me and her dont' talk anymore and I still wasnt' over the boy so look at us know were back together and were' very happy so just wait a while then ask him
girl please email me at bossy_byabrith@yahoo we can be emails buddys'
2006-12-24 14:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sexi Azz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you only went out for two weeks you should guard your heart more carefully in the future. Unless you have green horns growing out of your forehead there will be other guys that will want to go out with you. But you need to be a bit more casual and less intense when you are just starting to date. I can understand you being a bit down about being dumped, but it seems like your taking a two week dating thing and turning it into a huge drama. Maybe that was the problem? That maybe you were in too much of a hurry to be "with" someone?
Take some time and work on yourself. Go to school, be with your family, volunteer at your church, community, with a girls club or with a shelter. Work on your career, follow one of your dreams...when your not looking love will find you in the most unexpected places! Give your heart a rest. Good luck.
2006-12-24 22:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me honey I know what you are going throuhg. I have been in love with my Ex since we were children. I am twenty three and well some good advice give it time. Use this time to reinvent yourself. This is your time. Think of the great times u had before him. The biggest cure STAY AS BUSY AS POSSIBLE. Get a new hobby go to places that you have never been. My Ex and I have been split for eight months...two months past he came over out of the blue to tell me he is getting married, but here is the surprise last night he showed up at my door telling me that they split because he realized that he is and has been in love with me. So my advice to you is to wait, Spoil yourself as much as possible, This IS UR TIME...if there are things you want to do differenty with yourself as a woman you have the power. You may not realize it yet, but the better you do the happier you appear to them if your on top of things doing well on your own, and they see that? Well lets just say men do not like to see their exes doing better than them. To guys it's all agame. It's up to us as WOMEN to use the gifts we have to beat them. Do this for yourself and he will eventually see what he lost.. he may not realize it right away, but when he does he will feel so stupid, and if by then u are still single, you will have the power to make him beg for your love. Get aggressive. I know it hurts, but that over time will fade, at that point you will be stronger, empowered, and the path that you are meant to lead will have been made. Believe me I am doing it now. I have a better apartment, I have improved my style. my hobbies, which I have more now, and oh yeah kill them with kindness. When you feel ready, you will be able to act like he does not matter. Try watching the movie French Kiss. There are some really grat pointers. It helps.
2006-12-24 22:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Quartzheart24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time to get over someone. And you can't possibly know that no one will go out with you. (there are a lot of people in the world adn you haven't met them all)
You don't need him.
It is natural to feel upset and sad but try to get out and take your mind off of him. Time will help. Even read a book, watch a movie anything to stop thinking of him. The less he is on your mind the more something else will be and soon you won't think of him at all. He will be a memory.
2006-12-24 22:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw..Well i'm sorry he broke up with you. But obviously he is a jerk if he didn't really get time to know you. I think you should just let him go hun...Just think of it as an easy escape because obviously he couldn't tell what a wonderful person you are. Try and move on, don't try looking for love, let it find you! Hang out with friends, do something you like to keep your mind of this guy! Good luck.
2006-12-24 22:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how that feels just finally and totally got over my ex a few days ago. It takes time to heal a broken heart. Just be thankful for everything u do have and enjoy life.
2006-12-24 22:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure, sweetie, that you will get over this guy. For heavens sakes, you could hardly classify this guy as a boyfriend for just 2 weeks of dating. Grow up and move on.
2006-12-24 22:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for you to do is stay single for 1year for your sake.It is good to be single and it will give you time to heal and then if you ever do meet some one else then you will not be on the rebound like most women do.Trust me it works and when you finally do meet that guy he will really love you for your independence.Guys love that women do every thing for them selves it turns guys on trust me.
2006-12-24 22:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks is easy to get over. Is it because you feel like no one els will ask you out? Don't stick with someone who doesn't like you. I don't see the big problom....?
2006-12-24 22:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by Casper77mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one dont set yourself up for that again if he said its over then well its over dont try to get back you will have a very bad reputation for that and also dont go looking for a guy right away it is not fair to you or another guy to rebound an one more thing distance yourself from him dont talk dont look and dont see him be with your friends and let them help yoo get over him.
2006-12-24 22:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by sororitychick_112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋