i'm in love with 2 men and they both love me what do i do?
2006-12-24 14:20:28 · 24 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If only I had a "dilemma" like THAT!! *LOL*
That's not a problem, that's a fantasy come true *LOL*
Seriously, squeeze every second of enjoyment you can out of this situation, cause it's destined to not last!! One of them will probably tire of the arrangement and either ask you for an ultimatum or just quit....(who's to say that one...or both....of the guys aren't involved with any OTHER girls??? Caught in a similar triangle YOU happen to be in! Hmmmm!! The plot thickens!!)
And to all you dopes getting on her case saying "Shame on you!! There's NO SUCH THING as being in love with 2 people at the same time...There's only ONE TRUE LOVE, blah, blah, blah...." That's a big pile of BS..... Are you consulting a fairy tale book for relationship advice?? Seriously!!!
....Although I admit, I was once one of those dopes.....until it happened to me. Oh, it's very real....but I guess it's one of those things one'll never really understand until it happens to them.....
In all honesty, the best way to know which one to keep (and I can almost guarantee you WILL eventually have to choose....unless one doesn't know about the other, they find out, get angry and you lose out on BOTH of them....Ahh....the plot thickens even still!!! *LOL*) is to spend time in getting to know each guy as best you can (and by that I don't mean getting to know the inside of his pants). Common interests, dislikes, and of course chemistry are major deciding factors....But as I said, only time can determine those answers......
Good luck,
CactusHeart
2006-12-24 20:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your never in love with two men!!!
u wil monly have one true love, only one!!!!!
you like one more than u really realize!!!
check both of their pros and cons then look at yourself and find out how u r, and whats best for u and i guarantee that u will pick da right peson 4 u!!
2006-12-24 14:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by will's girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sort of feels your jealous ! a million) this is a reason of many problems in existence, yet for you ! ask your self what could be happiness on your guy and in case you particularly need to grant it to him from the backside of your heart without wanting something on return. what's happiness for you ? 2) Is he interested in many different women persons ? locate out if this is his actual filosophy in existence. if so, perhaps this is not something handy so you might stay with this guy interior the destiny. you will no longer have the skill to renounce him from seing others. believe me. attempt to be freed from attachment. receive terrific desires on your existence from Christian.
2016-11-23 16:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by prochnow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one has the best personality,which one makes you laugh,which one makes you happy the most?,which one is cuter,which one cares for you more then you take your pick and you stick with it and break the news to the other but make sure he is or gonna be faithful
2006-12-24 14:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by shli g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget both of them, because you don't love either one. Good luck!
2006-12-24 14:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your seeing 2men and one dont know then your actually cheating but If u see them at the same time and there okay with it then its No big deal but i dont believe in doing that one person is enough for me for my advice stick to just one
2006-12-24 14:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sean S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose one, or try to work around both of them without getting caught. up to you what you do, just be careful, you may loose both.
2006-12-24 14:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to pick one the one you love the most. Its hard I know.
2006-12-24 14:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by soccer girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be happy while you can. It might get a bit sticky when they find out about each other!
2006-12-24 14:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by themainsail 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pick 1 if you are not polyamorous. If you ARE poly, then there is no problem, right?
2006-12-24 14:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Philip Kiriakis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋