I have never been in a relationship where i am aloud to choose how far we get to go and when? i hate sex cause i cant dont get turned on and when ido i throw up or feel sick, i just want to make him happy without having to have sex and a hand job wont work he wont ***
2006-12-24 14:18:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try being a bit more sensual with him. Do anything to turn him on more BEFORE the pants come off. The more anticipation there is the more likely he is to orgasm. Long drawn out make out sessions will get him worked up ahead of time.
Some neat tricks that work on me are to fondle the testicles (a lot), stroke very slowly the entire length of his unit. Squeeze his genitals lightly. Let him fondle and caress your breasts as you work on him. Try using some lubricant on him (warm baby oil is a good one.)
Think about what turns you on and do that to him. Massage his back and work your way around to his nipples and on down to his manhood.
It may take a while, 30 - 45 minutes but the when he gets off he will fire off like the 4th of July for you. Also try a little oral action, the tongue on him will do wonders (remember to draw the lines on what you will and wont do.)
2006-12-24 14:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He probably CAN climax, he just chooses not to so he can manipulate you into having sex. " I just can't climax that way, baby'. That is a load- a bigger one than the one he wont shoot. No matter what, don't give in and have sex just to make him feel good. You deserve to be comfortable and feel good too.
2006-12-24 14:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
try taking viagra that should turn you on and if the hand job doesn't work try sucking it and make it touch your mammary glands
2006-12-24 14:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by net lover 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you need to ask him what feels good to him. or even have him show you how he likes it done
2006-12-24 14:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Fortytipper 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋