ok heres the deal my best friend is going out w/ a guy that i actually like and idk what to do cuz i respect him soo and her soo much and i dont want to ruin their relationship should i tell him or should i keep it quiet??
2006-12-24 14:14:35 · 21 answers · asked by loveya241 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Zip your lip......don't mess with their relationship, don't get flirty with him and find other activities to do. In the end, you will loose a friend and a so-called bopyfriend. Don't be a snake in the grass.
2006-12-24 14:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would see how the relationship is first. If it is going really well then it just might be your chance to tell your best friend. I would just be like "I really respect you and (BoyFriend Name), He is amazing, I wish I could be with him" or something like that. I wouldn't be like "I like your boyfriend, can me and him make out" That would be bad. In the worse case, I don't think it would ruin their relationship, it most likely would ruin yours and your bestfriends relationship. You have to see which is more important to you. Your best friend or the guy. I hope some of this helped.
2006-12-24 22:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by jojot001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep quiet, get over it and move on. He choose your best friend over you in the first place, and yo dont want to ruin a relationship and a friendship too..
2006-12-24 22:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, youre in a really tough situation. im sorry about that. listen up, though. if she was your true best friend and you were her's, then you wouldnt even think about it. now i know it's easier said than done but keep telling yourself that it's wrong... it's sort of like stealing, stealing a person. would you loose your best friend in order to have her boyfriend? if so, then you aren't being a true, sincere friend. this all comes down to making the desicion of someone's life. you are risking a relationship, your best friend. you may dump that guy or he may dump you, which is most likely to occur, but will you ever dump your bestfriend? no. i truly believe that you should keep quiet. try just being his friend. you can still hang out with him, but nothing further. i like this boy that my best friend really always liked. so he asked me out and i turned him down even though i really liked him because i know that i would crush my dearest friend which i didnt have the guts to do. it could be we feel different about our best friends. idk u or your friend, or the relationship the 2 of you have but dont break her relationship. good luck with everything and listen to your heart.
*did you ever see spiderman? well, harry asks mj out w/o telling peter. peter always loved her... do you know what im saying? well, that almost ended their friendship and it wasnt even that peter was w/ her, he just liked her. this proves even more so how important it is not to betray your friend.
2006-12-24 22:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by vovo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uummm....that's hard....i would keep it quiet for a few reasons.....One, do u want to ruin your relationship with your friend?, Two, there is a chance that your crush may not accept u because he likes your friend. Three, ask yourself if he is really worth it......is he worth your relationship with your friend....remember, there are still billions of guys out there.....are u sure HE is the one?
2006-12-24 22:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kairi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The friends golden rule:
Don't mess with your friends man..it's not worth losing a friend over.
Boys will come and go but friends are forever....trust me, I have known by 2 best friends for over 15 years.
2006-12-24 22:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by elprez14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem before but the best thing to do is back off. If you don't wanna lose a friend then I wouldn't tell him. Hope that helped.
2006-12-24 22:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it quiet. I've been there and he broke up with her to go out with me.. So if you dont want to ruin their relatonship. Then just dont tell him.
2006-12-24 22:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD KEEP QUIET AND TRY TO GET OVER HIM IT WILL RUIN YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH YOUR FRIEND AND IT ISNT WORTH IT GUYS COME AND GO TRUE FRIENDS WILL BE THERE TILL THE END
2006-12-24 22:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by Angela W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ruin their happiness. find your own man. now if they ever break up thats a differnet story. at that point he is free game. or you both could share like me and my best friend have done before
2006-12-24 22:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by tatersma1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋