Why do girls with bfs-- who may be somewhere with there bf's at the time- look at me?
May it be at the gym, at the club... girls with bfs look at me; but I dont mean just look at me like they're looking around the room and happen to see me, I mean they look at me and act towards me like single women do when they're trying to get men's attention--- but their man is right there in the same room!
For instance, women might smile at me while dancing with someone who I know is there man because I see them holding hands 5 mins b4 and 5 mins after. A woman might come over there and smile and try to catch eyes with me while trying to work out on a machine close to where I was.... and I see her man with her all the time.
This happens very often to me. I wanna ask women why other women do this. I wanna ask these women with bfs who DO this, what it means and why the do it. And I wanna ask other men if they've had the same experiences
2006-12-24 14:08:07 · 14 answers · asked by Airtight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's because they're crazy! It means they're very ignorant and insensitive! Good night!
2006-12-24 14:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy...and have been through it.
Its a genetic imperitive...much like shopping.
A constant need to upgrade their sex and mealticket.
Cuter face...better build...better job...and everybody's favorite..more money.
If they arent trawling for a good shag or something permanant, it is a game just to tease the snot out of some guy for a good laugh. Look at Britney Whatzerface... Local guy... then her underwear model looking dancer, so now she's free to nail a fellow artist and increase her status. Don't blame them, its genetic.
2006-12-24 14:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by vaughndhume 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and woman do it equally. It is because in the mind you know something is happening in your relationship that will allow you to move on. Keep your eyes open! That person will be in front of you when you least expect it!
Believe in it when you see it!
2006-12-24 14:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason men with gfs look at other women with intent.
2006-12-24 14:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they really arent looking at you in that way... maybe you are just full of yourself and think that all women want you. Perhaps they smile at you to be friendly? Or maybe they would like to be friends! Try talking to them to see if they havedifferent intentions than you think
2006-12-24 14:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happens to me and i can tell you from experience to never start something with one of these girls. it's gonna be drama that you don't need. for me, these girls tell me their boyfriend is nice and all, but they don't want nice in the bedroom. when they see you dancin or workin out, they wanna get at you for just the night.
girls play some crazy childish games and just look past them. find yourself a woman who knows how to do her thing and you'll be alright.
remember, dudes and girls can't be friends. someone's gonna want to escalate the relationship. all these heifers checkin you out want you for one thing. it's wild right?
2006-12-24 14:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is to look available BUT never be available. It is also adds the mystery to the bf that "hey my gf is hot and other guys check her out so i am lucky" That is it man! i know this i do this. But i don't go flirting with other men i just "look available".
2006-12-24 14:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by ladymissv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because nowadays none of us is satisfied with what we have - not only women - we men too. they want more :----
sex, money, fun
we all want to have all the fun before the life goes far off and we cant do that. nowadays - there are no principles/ no faith in god/no fear of karma biting you back.
we are all just like animals - with human formalities.
i get girls staring at me - literally staring - at work, at jim , at bars even if they have bfs.
i stare at women too -- if they are hot.
we are all going uncontrolled.
2006-12-24 14:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just shows that they are not contented. They are searching for something in their inner self that can make them complete. But please, don't return back their attention. You will just make a big mistake. Start everything with a clean slate. Trust in God to protect you from temptaion. Allow Jesus Christ to protect you. Don't be like mere men. But don't reject those girls. Be a brother to them with pure motives. God Bless You!!
2006-12-24 14:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by Mari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just like to look around, especially if the guy is eye candy, same with you all doing guys!!!
But not all though..i dont look around. My bf is gorgeous:)
2006-12-24 14:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just so hot..girls cant help but look.....Or maybe you have that thing that some guys have ...you stare at them and so they keep looking back...and the more you stare the more they look back....You might be sending them some kinda vibe....
2006-12-24 14:17:08 · answer #11 · answered by Lrn'dTheHardWay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋