My ex-boyfriend came to see me. We talked briefly had some wine and we shared a moment. Now I haven't heard from him and of course I know how the scenario goes. I'm not as mad as I thought I would be, but I still want him. What should I do? I don't want to turn into that needy person.
2006-12-24 12:44:19 · 14 answers · asked by krispykreme335 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds more like lust rather than love to me. 5 months after I broke up with my ex i still wanted him. Maybe you should just take that sign of him not contacting you as one that whatever happened that night was just a one-off, never to happen again. He's your ex remember, and you two broke up for a reason.
Does he have a girlfriend, or one he's not telling you about? If so, it would make the situation a lot worse, because later you'll feel like he's just used you for his own pleasure. I've been there, honey. I hope you don't get hurt too!
But whatever you decide to do, I hope you make the right decisions :)
2006-12-24 12:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Unefemme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 15:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The case you are stuck in is a really tough one. I'm sure you are puting yourself under a lot of stress over a conflict that you think can change you.
Even though it might be hard...Breath, and relax.
Take a deep breath and think back to the reasons why you dumped him, or he dumped you. Now determine whether these reasons are to complicated to fix or were diminutive enough to work past.
you may just be experiencing your past feelings for him.
It's ok, don't freak out. Listen to your mind for a moment and figure whether he is truly worth it and if you really want him, or you just think you do.
take your time, this is sometimes a heart-breaking concept.
Whatever decision you make will hopefully clear up all stress and confusion.
God bless, happy holidays. :-)
2006-12-24 12:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cassie...:) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really, seriously consider this before going back to this guy.
If you honestly love him and can live with him for the rest of your life, then I say why not? Give him another shot.
If you just want a man in your life, I don't think this guy is for you because you guys already had a shot, but it didn't work out. Plus, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. You shouldn't limit yourself to just this guy.
2006-12-24 12:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep some distance between you that way your not sharing any moments give your self time to get over him and don't go begging or looking needy.
2006-12-24 12:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by tiggerslily2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-20 11:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME, get away from him, cutt off all comunications, get your own space, and get your life back w/o him in the picture. its not gonna be easy but if you continue to see him than its gonna continue to hurt more and more. You need to get over him and the way to do that is TIME. good luck
2006-12-24 12:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Honey, I am soooooo sorry.
Get over him. Move on. You AREN'T that needy person.
2006-12-24 12:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by istitch2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how ya feel and go from there. at least then you wont look back wishing you had said something. life's too short call him. if he doesn't feel the same at least then you can say you tried.
2006-12-24 12:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by a l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasn't called you then you should call him..let him know how you feel and find out how he feels if he doesn't want you anymore then move on , but try to find out first
2006-12-24 12:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋