I am trying to meet someone in my area by these onlinedating services. No one wanted to answer for awhile then after Thanksgiving; half a dozen women (with kids) started saying hi. No one seems interested in me but then they talk about how they are having a tuff time this Christmas. Are they Golddigging for the holidays? Should I wait and see like I have? I am not a dummy! So what gives?
2006-12-24 12:38:08 · 12 answers · asked by Karl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all year long brotha, all year long
2006-12-24 12:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by Stymie 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
no we are not golddigging, well not all of us, it's just sometimes we do need indulgances. Single women are more online these days are not married and trying to meet someone before the holidays, which is why you see more people on the services
2006-12-24 12:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by liumeng 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If someone man or woman is interested in someone else the option of money should never come up!! Just becasue someone says they are struggling doesn't automatically think they are after money!! Guys always think that and the funny thing to me is there are probably more guys living off a female the vise versa!! The reason my girls with kids are struggling is because there are a lot of low life guys out there that make a baby but can't help in raising it!!! So just because a female has kids she is automatically a golddigger?? Makes no sense to me because I was once a single mom and I would rather eat dirt then pretend to want some guy just becuase he SAYS he has money....WHATEVER!!
2006-12-24 12:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by Floridapurrfection 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes I wonder, but I always give the benefit of a doubt whats the problem with a few extra kids gifts at Christmas. Write it off as a Karmic investment
2006-12-24 12:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sid B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not all women are golddiggers at Christmas. Some of us work very hard (doing things like cooking, to tying the very last ribbon with love), to make Christmas lovely for the people in our lives that we care about. : )
I understand where you are coming from with the women on the dating site and their sudden interest. I'd think I'd feel as you do.
Have a blessed Christmas.
2006-12-24 12:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is pathetic, it surely sounds as though that is what their agenda was. Sad, very sad. Perhaps they should obtain an education and getter a better paying position and be able to support their children in the manner they desire. Have a blessed Christmas and a joyous New Year! God bless****
2006-12-24 12:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
THey could be gold diggers, or maybe some of them just don't want to be alone for christmas.
2006-12-24 12:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not me i could care less about christmas !
2006-12-24 14:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Back Off Jack ! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not,i havent asked my man for squat.
2006-12-24 13:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO, but men are a55holes all year long.
2006-12-24 12:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
we gold dig all year long
2006-12-24 12:57:09 · answer #11 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋