Will he ever come back?he doesnt know what he wants and used to change his mind a lot?

Question

My bf and I were on and off 3 times during our one-year-long relationship(we are long distance).I made big mistakes by chasing him back and making things easy for him every time. I thought i was being considerate but he was losing respect for me although i have lots of admirers and he's not a ladys' man. I think the main reason i love him so much is b/c he is my 1st bf and i wanna work it out with him. 2 weeks ago we broke up again. It's his finals week,he's under a lot of stress and i called too much. i got mad when he didnt pick it up and didnt return the call and when i confronted him with it he got even more stressful(since he's not been doing very well in college).Before the final, he's all that he loves me so much and all of a sudden he's like i cant see a future with you and i want out before it has the potential of lingering around forever(i'm also his 1st gf).This time i'm definitely not gonna beg or call him or chat online first,i wonder if he'll ever come back after a while?

Answer 1

I don't know, but listen and I mean this in the nicest way possible, stop being so clingy. Guys need their space and you continue that he'll never be back. It's good to show that you care, yet your timing seems to be off kilter. Never call or bother a guy when they are under stress that is a huge no-no.

Answer 2

i was in college and yes it was very stressful and the only time i didnt have time for my guy was when i was at the end of my rope and didnt want to be with him anymore. this sounds like what is happening to you. yes he is in school and is busy but he isnt that busy as to where he cannot talk to you or handle a relationship. if he doesnt want one the least he could do is treat you with respect.

Answer 3

if u are meant to be together u and he will find ur way back to one another here is a saying...the things u love may make u cry the things u need may pass u by....if u both are truly meant to be together u will find ur way back may take awhile but it will happen if its gods will:o)..never chase any one cause if u seem desperate then that person will take advantage of u and have no respect because they know ur routine u always come back...be strong and dont give in let him come too u...we always want wat we cant have we r just wired that way..things will work them selves out jus be strong;o)

Answer 4

Try to go on and meet someone else, sometimes we get into a pattern, and who wants to live a life like that...Make that your new years resolution.......