I met this guy and I gave it up way too soon I want a relationship though and I think hes turning me into the booty call girl, so how do I just let him know that I want more and is it possible to make him gain respect for me and if so how.
2006-12-24 12:31:24 · 9 answers · asked by kandi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been that girl. I gave it up and that's all it was about, and it never stopped being about that even though I tried to make it be more. It has to be the individual who can get past that and if he really wants to, he will make an attempt to see you as a person and hopefully develop a relationship, but if that is something that he isn't about then either you will accept the conditions or you will move on. You can't make someone see how wonderful you are, if all they see is sex. Tell him how you feel and see what happens, but always keep your pride and self respect. Good luck.
2006-12-24 12:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by krispykreme335 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be truthful here you quite won't be ready to take a step decrease back now. I propose you have jumped in with the two feed and eyes huge open the two situations you made it to base 3.. Now you ought to suck up the tears and be a woman here. tell him if he thinks he is going to get intercourse and then take care of you like the day previous to this's information, he has yet another ingredient coming for constructive. ought to call on your comprehend from him. because of the fact in case you do no longer he will take care of you like a booty call and not provide a damn approximately what you think of. So in case you desire to be with him longer than this, tell him to handle you like a woman, comprehend you, your physique and your thoughts. no longer in straightforward terms that yet do no longer assume intercourse on call for the two. Oh and a rapid p.s. dude ought to basically be busy or something. Had unexpected plans or something arise. So do no longer canines him out til you hear what he has been as much as. And after he tells you and you're happy with that answer. Get into him providing you with your comprehend and not some dial a booty lady.
2016-11-23 15:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him when he's taking you out and to where? Suggest some restaurants and ask him if he can afford the tab. I don't think he should get offended (after all you've given him your goodies.) Use this strategy to see if he shows any type of interest...will he show? will he have excuses....
" I don't have any money"
"I had something else to do"
I would tell you to ask and converse with him. But he may whisper sweet-nothings in your ear, and have no attention of committing but still want your sex.
If it were me I'd step and move on....don't make the same mistake of giving up your goody box until a man shows real interest or you're married.
2006-12-24 13:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
when he calls at 12 am, dont answer. if you start like that its more than likely he will only use you for sex because theres nothing more to explore. alot of guys are only interested in one thing and when you give it up so soon, he has nothing else to discover. just learn from your mistakes. take care.
2006-12-24 14:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pretty simple, stop having sex with him. When he calls ask him where he is going to take you for a date, what his intentions are, etc......... only you have control of how he treats you. If you allow him to treat you like a whore, that is how he is going to treat you.
2006-12-24 12:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sally B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him how you feel, and tell him what you want, but he has gotten what he wants and knows he can come back for more any old time.
2006-12-24 12:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Stuart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't pick up the phone
and keep your legs closed
2006-12-24 12:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Stymie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just say no.
2006-12-24 15:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by proudmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-24 12:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by ???????????????????? 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋