hi , this girl whom i went out with for 6 months broke up with me 3 weeks ago, i am really heart-broken right now. We were in love, but lately she was under a lot of stress. we got into a fight about commitment issue, then after fight, she broke up right away, saying that she has lost all her feelings for me and we can never be together again. Exams time come, she had a lot of time at home, she she kept msg me online, but i would not answer until the end of the night, she kept doing that, sending me mix signal. Now that exams are over i'm all alone by myself, but she has family and friends to hangout with during that holiday so she's enjoying herself. She dropped by yesterday just to see me for 30 minutes, which confused me again about her true intention.. I wanna know when is a good time that i should ask her for her feeling because she's not mad at me anymore?? do i even have a chance?? i really love her.. we were each other's first too.. please help
2006-12-24 12:09:13 · 7 answers · asked by tele t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't confuse hormones for love. Six months is not a lot of time,
and remember love is not selfish, self-seeking, or self-absorbed
Keep things light and play it by ear.
Give yourselves time to figure out what you guys really need.
true love is all about the other persons needs, not your own
2006-12-24 12:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. It sounds like she is very selfish and immature. The best thing you could do is walk away. If you let her back in your life you are giving her permission to treat you badly just because she feels like it. You deserve more. Take some time to be by yourself and have fun. It will help you develop your independence and you will be able to realize you don't need to be involved to be happy. Love yourself more.
2006-12-24 20:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she is probably sending you mixed signals because she is mixed up too. There is still a chance. Ask her to get back together while she is hinting that she wants to get back together. She just made a mistake which she is regretting. It happens. Get her Back.
2006-12-24 20:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by mendoncadam 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her the first time an opportunity presents itself, and find out how she feels.
2006-12-24 20:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm...well...what to tell you It sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants herself...The best thing to do would be to ask her whats up?!you will never know inloss you ask..Aleast maybe you all can stay friends..Good luck..And there is somone out there if she doesn't work out..I WISH YOU THE BEST AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!
2006-12-24 20:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by carly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that even though you guys are broken up that your there for her through her times of need and maintain friendship statis with her and build from there.
Good luck!
2006-12-24 20:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by xoxoluv 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why don't you just move on with your life.
2006-12-24 20:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by H S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋