Im desperate.
2006-12-24 12:05:46 · 14 answers · asked by IO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try a church social club, I am sure you will find what you are looking for there. Once you get bored try a bar or rodeo and you will find more exciting males
2006-12-24 12:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The word says that a man that findeth a wife findeth a good thing. You shouldn't be looking for a Christian boyfriend. Just be you, and don't look or act desperate...be a lady. The man should be attracted to you...therefore if he's really a Christian and truly saved he'll be looking for a wife, and not a girlfriend. You don't want to pour your heart into someone, and they're just trying you out...and they get your goods and then they're gone. Pray and ask God for a husband, and describe what you want in that man.
Don't make the mistake of settling for anyone. That is when you're liable to get
anything. A man can sense a desperate woman, and that man may use you, or try to run all types of games on you.
I agree that there's a high probablity that you'll find a true Christian man in church. I don' t think you should go to church just to meet a man. There are some true Christian men who are in church to serve Jesus, not just to find a woman. If you find a man that's attending church to meet women only...they're not there for the right reasons.
2006-12-24 20:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so desperate for a boyfriend?? Step back, and slow down.. when the time is right it will happen. The best way to meet other christians is proubly through your church like different youth rallys, camp and other christian friends.
It is not good to feel desperation though, you could push yourself for something that your not ready for. Invest time in yourself and your faith if a guy that is following in the faith sees how you are getting involved in your church and how much faith you have in yourself and in god it will make him more attracted to you in the long run.
No guy is gonna go for someone who acts like they cant live without a guy and is desperate. Give yourself a break! Get involved with things around you and do things for yourself and having a boyfriend will not seem like a MUST. Good luck!
2006-12-24 20:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Desperate find Jesus first the rest will follow in time .
Not all guys in church are true Christians .
Whats the rush?
Merry Christmas .
2006-12-24 20:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join a Chrisitan church and become active in it. Many, if not most, Christian churches have all different kinds of ministries and activities to become involved in.
Our church has organized sports activities, children's activities, martial arts, bible studies, missionary activities and all other kinds of things going on all the time.
Church is a great place to meet and mingle with other single Christians!
2006-12-24 20:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to church you find the best men there but look nice
2006-12-24 20:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm church. at least thats where i would start. are you in the same as me being in the 20's not very many choices at church in that age group.
2006-12-24 20:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church
join some crew
2006-12-24 20:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Thrills 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 2 a church or a christian church. but honey word of advice go for someone who is atheist
2006-12-24 20:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by thedemonofthehiddenmist 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if people go to church it dosent mean that they are good christians... so church shouldnt be your only option.
2006-12-24 20:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋