i`m in pain because the girl that i really liked rejected me and no i`m in pain....
2006-12-24 11:58:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i`m in pain
2006-12-24 13:04:47 · update #1
Dont worry man just move on. Forget her, there;s soemone for you.
2006-12-24 11:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Huh! 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The pain you feel is only temporary. As the saying goes, there are a lot of fish in the sea. Allow yourself to experience the emotions that go with being rejected, but do not linger on them too long. Then get out and circulate and soon you will meet someone new, or at least make new friends.
2006-12-24 20:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by seekermike 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Really I've been there awhile ago (like 5 months ago) this guy didn't me so i was pretty bummed about it. Yeah kind of hard to believe. Until after while i realized he wasn't the person i thought he was. So i know what your going through it's hard but what i suggest to you is that maybe just let it go. Do understand what i mean just 1 girl doesn't like you doesn't mean the next 1 won't. And think of it this way it's lost your probably a great person deep down inside. I think you should keep going and stay strong and be positive. All I'm saying is that you gotta keep your head up.Well i hoped helped out.
2006-12-24 21:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a situation like this you just have to realize that even though you really like her and she is the one for you...you are not the one for her. Don't take it personal as we all have certain qualities and things we look for in another. The fact that you didn't make her list does not make you a bad person. Be thankful in this case as had she said yes...and really didn't like you, she would be using you. Most people have certain qualities they look for as I am sure you do to. Take it for what it is. No one can make you feel anything (good or bad) that you don't allow. Thus is you feel rejected it is from you inner self telling you that your not good enough etc. She didn't say that...Give yourself a pat on the back for being brave enough to ask.
2006-12-24 20:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by steelnpleasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also in the same boat as you are and this is how I get by:
I tell myself that if a person wants to be with you,n they would go out of their way to spend time with you and do things with you!
Better to be rejected now, than later
I know..... its hard and you hate feeling the way that you do!
if its any consolation, what goes around comes around! Let it go, and try to move on! I am doing the same.
Goodluck!
2006-12-24 20:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hurtin too. This guy I liked, and I sower he liked me back because we would kiss and spend alot of time together, and then he got really busy and pushed ,me off...so my advice that helped me is just move on, there is no point in liking someone who won't like you back. Its harder said but just associate with other people and you will find out that you are more special than you thought...My crush is getting all old now, I guess he is gay or somethin lol, I don't look bad at all...hmmm oh well. I wish you luck.
2006-12-24 20:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Princesa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in life people reject you for the wrong reasons, and other times they want you for the wrong reasons too. Try not to take it too personally.
2006-12-24 20:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, Ive been rejected soooo much by my husband that im numb to it now. Just know that people are human and you will get hurt from time to time. Try not to let it get you too down.
2006-12-24 20:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by Crissy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brush yourself off and move on.
2006-12-24 20:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look for the positive in your life and lean on people you can trust for support
2006-12-24 19:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by atbkkj 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋