you cant stop thinking about a girl, you keep waiting for her too call, time flys by when youre with her, you get depressed if shes mad at you,you cant fall asleep if she dosent call or text you, you get a bit jelous when she talks about her sexual expiriances with other guys...
2006-12-24 11:48:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it can be.
it all depends.
you will know it's love.
sounds like it.
but it's a feeling.
and you can only feel it.
2006-12-24 11:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by SHANNON. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That could be a couple of things... first off, I'd say its a crush... but it could be that you're in love with her...
However, when one is in a mutually loving mature relationship, the obsessions, constantly thinking of her, getting depressed when you don't talk with her, etc... those are signs of a relationship that needs a better understanding of where the two of you stand.
I remember those feelings, and they caused me a lot of pain and depression.
As for the feeling a bit jealous when she talks about her sexual past, that's pretty darned normal... I've had that feeling with everyone I've been involved with...
But you can also learn from it... figure out what she likes and dislikes sexually, and improve your own sex life with her.
So - in the end - I'd say its love...
Best wishes for the both of you.
-dh
2006-12-24 11:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. You need to think about what your definition of love is. Everything you described has more to do with obsession and infatuation.
Love is wanting the same spiritual, intellectual, and emotional growth for your partner as you want for yourself. Can you handle that? Have you ever given any thought to what your definition of love is?
It's not a problem if you are infatuated and like a girl; it can eventually lead to love, over time, but what you are describing is more like an infatuation.
2006-12-24 11:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love? perhaps, but definitely be careful. if this love, not an infatuation, jealousy will destroy it before it starts. there is more of a fine line between love and possession than people think. love is not worrying what the other is doing 24-7. but it is also not about "talking about things that knowingly will hurt the other. If it is love i am sooo happy for you. i think true love MAY only come once in a lifetime, but who knows???
good luck and be careful!
2006-12-24 12:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... love is an extremely powerful word
if you only care for that persons happiness and would give anything for that person to be happy even sacrifice yourself than yes and if just being with the person fills ur stomach with lots of happy butter flies than yes
but it could also be "infatuation" which means you don't fully trust the person and want to be intimate more than just be with person and its basically lust and u don't trust them than no...
so you have to figure it out by looking inside yourself.. and you cant lie to yourself.. you can only try
2006-12-24 11:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. thats love. Sometimes it sucks and sometimes it works out the best. Hope you fall in love with the person your talking about.
2006-12-24 11:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by xoxoluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. brandon i think you might be in love if you can't stop thinking about the whole situation with you and your mistress. follow your heart and it will lead you where your supposed to be. build your self-confidence and ask her what she's thinking how was your day and always make her feel good when she around you and you will be fine. trust and beleive.
2006-12-24 11:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by acuria b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
its ah what is that word
desparate
i think that is how you spell it
if you love her
then you would trust her
and well she wouldnt be doing all that sexual stuff either cause she would know that it offends you
or maybe you are just obssed
2006-12-24 11:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by MightyHyphy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old this girl is but if she as had a lot of sexual partners then I would class her as a worn out carpet.... and she would never be faithful to you
2006-12-24 11:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by Carling 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that it is love or at the least a very strong attraction
2006-12-24 11:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. you got too much time to idle.work or study or play something...read a school book.
2006-12-24 11:56:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋