hes kinda like a jock and hes in alot of sports and i see who he likes and its mostly skinny girls with big (.Y.) what should i do if i want him to like me more than a friend?
2006-12-24 11:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by Lyssa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough one... sounds like he's got the traditional jock syndrome... not a good sign... particularly if he's more interested in (.Y.) than in the person...
Personally, show some (.Y.) and give him a kiss... or ask him on a date and tell him how you feel.
From experience, I've had women friends that in retrospect, if I'd known they liked me, would have been great gfs... But I didn't know until it was to late.
One - we finally hooked up after 4 or 5 years of college and seeing each other as friends... one day we talked, and I found out that she'd been waiting for me to be single to try and hook up. We were together for six years after that.
And the first time we slept together was truly awesome.
Just my .01 - I wish you much luck.
-dh
2006-12-24 11:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he was interested in you as being more than a friend you would have known that by now. You acknowledged that he likes mostly skinny girls so I'm thinking you already know what his type is. Kind of hard to change a guys type of girl (especially if you aren't that type). Don't ruin a friendship... keep your admiration regarding him to yourself for a while. Sometimes you can get more from just a friendship than being in a boyfriend/girlfrend relationship with someone. Don't spoil what you already have which is a friendship with him. If you were gonna be his girl... I'm thinking that it would have happened already.
Hope this helps!
Merry Christmas!
2006-12-24 19:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time I get this question I always say....make sure your friendship won't be broken if you do date and it doesn't work out. I mean it's always nice to have friends instead of enemies if the relationship don't work out. I would rather keep a friendship then ruin it for something that could have been!! Think about this if you tell him that you like him and he doesn't feel the same way, do you think that there would be akwardness between you later on weather he says it won't bother him!!
2006-12-24 19:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Floridapurrfection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell. Just be his friend. But if you love him more than you think. Be like him. workout your body. Get in shape, get your self pretty . But do it for you not for him. Then you will see if that feeling you have for him is love or just truly friendship
2006-12-24 19:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by boricua1970maileen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel.
he needs to know or it can ruin u'r friendship.
but if you guys go out, make sure you won't lose u'r friendship if you break up.
make a good decision. talk about it first.
2006-12-24 19:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by SHANNON. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what to do, you are just looking for encouragement. Follow your instincts. If it goes badly at least you know you tried.
2006-12-24 19:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Epinions Reviewer. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously another easy question! answer: be skinny and hve big (.Y.)
2006-12-24 19:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I noe he will like you back
2006-12-24 19:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Z rules 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋