I am 41 female and i really like a 28 yr old. What are my chances????
2006-12-24 11:39:10 · 22 answers · asked by gymjunkie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ya never know, give it a try. You will probably at least "get some".
2006-12-24 11:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by littledreamergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your chances all depend upon this guy and how he feels about you. Keep in mind that you were 13 when he was born. That generation gap is just enough for you to not have a lot in common. Of course that depends upon how mature he is right now.
If ultimately your thinking marriage you have to keep in mind that when he hits 40, a time when some guys begin to worry about their age, you will be 53.........and so it goes.
If you only look at this as a fling then go for it girl. But you have to know to not look at the short term if marriage should ensue.
What is attraction now will be common place in a very few years and then you need something in common.
My intention here is not to discourage you here but to take a hard look at what you really want in this relationship.
I wish you luck.
2006-12-25 04:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that they are as good as any chances can be. I see nothing wrong with you liking a 28 year old guy at all.
2006-12-24 11:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't know that your chances for a long term relationship will be too good, unless you don't mind him seeing other women. There IS a chance of success, but I think the odds are against it looking only at the age difference without considering other factors.
Short term is probably pretty darn good if you are hot.
2006-12-24 11:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you just want to get laid then your chances are pretty good. If you are looking for something more than that, then you are going to have to hope for the best and give it some time. Your age has nothing to do with this because the answers I gave are true for everyone when it comes to love.
2006-12-24 11:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how the 28 year old feels.
2006-12-24 11:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he by chance, your personal trainer? And aren't you married? I'd suggest you are unrealistic and a bit dodgy. If your trainer just wants another bit of fluff to shag, then you're all set. Otherwise, you had better have loads of cash to bait that trap. Good luck to your poor sod of a husband.
2006-12-24 11:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur lookin for just sex then chances pretty good. probablity goes wayyy down if ur lookin 4 a relationship. but u neva know...look at ashton and demi...but then again u probably dont have a couple million... U probably dont want a 28 yr old for a relationship anyway, dont you remember how unfocused, indecisive, and irresponsible they can be?
2006-12-24 11:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by jean grey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love has NOTHING TO do with age eccept when it reaches the field of paidofilia when it's just anethical but in your case nothing seems bad to me the next thing is up to the 28 year old
2006-12-24 11:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your chances of getting laid may not be bad, or even a short term relationship, but long term stuff is out, unless you are a sugar mama and you don't mind him seeing other women...
2006-12-24 11:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋