i have a problem and dont know what to do we just moved to these apartments and we have just got to meet our neibors.me and my husband have been married for 12 years with 3 kids and this couple next to us we just meet havent even been married for 4 years yet.but anyways.everytime i see her man i fantsize about him..what do i do its getting really bad
2006-12-24 11:36:26 · 12 answers · asked by karin c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a hold of yourself! Is something lacking in your relationship with your husband? If so address those issues and stop escaping through fantasies.
2006-12-24 11:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think of your future, for a five minute thrill is it worth a life time of misery. you would suffer your kids would suffer even more if you and there dad was to break up,,, and him being a man... may take full advantage then leave you in the cold...
and should his wife find out then you would have to move home again.... I would say your playing in the danger area.... snap out of your fantasies with this guy
2006-12-24 11:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Carling 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the man is married, and so are you, and you have three children. I wouldn't pursue it any further unless you want to be a guest on the Jerry Springer show.
2006-12-24 11:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by HAGAR!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep your husband then you should keep to yourself, unless you are willing to sacrifice EVERYTHING to be with someone you just fanticize about. You should be careful not to scream his name while making love to your husband or he will get very suspectious of you. Are you willing to start over with a complete stranger?
2006-12-24 11:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your MARRIED! stop fantasizing about someone else when you already HAVE someone! and dont' divorce your husband or whatever to go after him or something because that wouldn't be good..and your kids would be really unhappy.
2006-12-24 11:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Q&A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife Swapping.. be fair about it at least
2006-12-24 11:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can look at the menu but u just can't order off the menu.
2006-12-24 11:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by blondie_XxX_blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,,,Honey go ahead and make your fantasy come true and get it over with or best of all...Just get over it.....
2006-12-24 11:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time you will get over it. It happens just please don't act on your feelings it's not worth your marriage.
2006-12-24 12:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypnosis will help.
2006-12-24 11:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋