My aunt just went to see her boyfriend again, and wonders why she didn't get a Christmas gift or gas money after running him around and doing errands for him.
I asked her if they had sex, and she was like, Yeah!!
I was like... "duh!!" and she still doesn't seem to get it.
WTF
2006-12-24 11:27:36 · 8 answers · asked by joulesofaffection 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've tried this. I started feeling like he was a creep when he was flirting with me. Then he promised my aunt he would buy my daughter the bike she wanted, because I'm having financial problems, and he totally backed out, and acted like an *** about it. Waited till the last minute
Oh, first he wanted to marry her, now he says he wants to slow down a little.
2006-12-24 11:35:33 · update #1
you just have to let her discover this on her own.
2006-12-24 14:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your aunt to smarten up. Don't have sex with the man anymore and see if he is still interested in spending time with her. Just make sure you are there to give her support and comfort when the jerk never calls her again.......because you can be sure he won't.
2006-12-24 19:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sally B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're in this you just can't see it yourself. Buy her the book "He's Just Not That Into You". There is even a short, mini version of it you could give her. It was life saving/changing for me.
2006-12-24 19:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by itsmeinin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to ask her BF to get married and see if he says yes or no. If he says yes then hes just not all sex he says no.. give him a good kick in the nads and everthing should be good from there..
2006-12-24 19:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just try and talk to her about it.....and tell her straight up how you feel and how you see things.....cause sometimes when you do something...others realize it before you do, cause your the one doing it.
2006-12-24 19:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by jenny_b2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and prove the point and show some examples
2006-12-24 19:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Q&A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant you can only inform and step back
good luck you gonna need it
2006-12-24 19:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by tofatandblack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and don't candy-coat it. She should understand your concern. : )
2006-12-24 19:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋