This is sorta messed up but...?

Question

OK...about a week and a half ago i broke up with my BF (glenn)... and then he stoped talking to me for the past week..so like 2 days ago i emailed him and asked if he was mad at me.. he said that he was just trying to forget me but his heart woudn't let him..ect.
well now he keeps asking if he can call me and on a couple survey things that i have sent to him and a couple other friends (ya no how they usually ask like ..if you had one wish what would it be..and like who was the last person you dated..if it ended why did it end yatta yatta)
well he always send them back and he always answers those questions like.. i hope ot really didn't end.. and..i wish you could be in my arms again... and it makes me feel so bad that i had to break up with him i want to cry..and i kinda wanna get back together with him ya no.. but then like other times when we are just randomly talking i don't think it would be a good idea if he and i were to get back together..

what should i do...?

as chessy as this sounds...we broke up because we didn't spend any time together.. and we didn't get to talk that much adn it felt like we were more friends than together.. that is stupid i know but before i thought it would be for the best becuase it wasn't real fair to the both us at least that is what i was told.. i belive my last three questions i have asked are about this so if you read those you will understand more.. just a suggestion!

Answer 1

Sounds like the same drama my bf and i have been through. What i did was have a long talk with him, (no sex) and told him i needed some space. Time to think about us. I also told him if he couldn't give me time to think about getting back together I'd be gone for good.

If he gives you the space and time you need to explore your own feelings about this relationship and all the possibilities where it could or could not take you. Then take this time and think about what you want out of this relationship.

Dont let his feelings enter into it, you need to think of yourself first when making these types of decisions.

If you find you don't want the relationship with him and want to be just friends. Tell him this and move on.

Hope this helps. Merry Christmas and good luck.

Answer 2

i do no longer think of that she rejected you, yet is in all probability in straightforward terms a sprint frightened considering which you somewhat know a minimum of one yet another, and this is shifting form of quickly. Wait a sprint bit and get in touch with her lower back or attempt to speak lower back on fb. Who is conscious, perhaps she's basically busy. If it seems she certainly would not want all of this courting stuff to happen, you could basically pass on. there will be yet another lady that makes you sense much extra in love, so don't be harm!

Answer 3

do NOT get back together..he's kindda emotionally abusing you right now..do NOT let him guilt trip u into getting back together..this is wrong..it's totally not your fault..i mean..am pretty sure u broke up with him for a reason..just remember the reason and stick to it..he's still the same person and you're still the same person too...getting bk to him will mean breaking up a lil while later.. and do you rlly wanna be with someone who cant even get over a break up?? talk him and tell him u want this to stop, and that you want to be friends again but you can't stay friends if he keeps bringing this stuff up..
but trust me..don't go bk to him..he IS emotionally abusing you right now

Answer 4

IF YOU DO NT WANT TO BE THERE THEN DO NT !
although you were not specific as to why the break up, the thing is why the break up in the first?
what is expected on both sides?where doe it go or end ?
then you can decide ,.
if its just a booty call then you got to make things clear even thought that doesn't always work when there are other emotions involved

Answer 5

it really does depend on why you broke up in the first place. If it was just problems that can be solved (like jealousy issues, distance growing between you guys, less change to see each other, etc.) then give him another chance. If it had to do with problems like cheating or abusiveness (mentally or physically) or constant lying, then move on.

Answer 6

I don't know the conditions under which you broke up, but there had to have been something seriously wrong. Unless you have that deep-in-the-pit-of-your-stomach feeling that you absolutely need to get back together, don't.

I'm going through the same situation with my ex. I broke up with him about 2 months ago, actually. I didn't get a relieved feeling after breaking up, but I kmew that it wouldn't work if we had continued. I know that he wants to get back together, and in my head I want to get back together, but I'm not getting that deep-in-the-pit-of-my-stomach feeling, that gut feeling.

Good luck!

Answer 7

ok before you get back together talk about what bothered you before, and keep talking, without communication nothing works and he needs to understand this...not only for your relaitonship but for him in the future,you sound like a wonderful person who has feelings...no one would give this another chance...so either way your a winner....trust your self

Answer 8

Don't email him things like this and let him know that you do not think you should start seing each other again. Let's just be friends.

Answer 9

Well if you're really in love then get back together but if your not then just try to keep in touch and still sty friends.(if you're not in love tell him you don't feel the same way as he does.)

Answer 10

Give him one last chance. Tell him that you feal that way and that something neads to change. If you still love his loving heart and tender care, then why don't you except him? Nobody is excactly the same, and we all make mistakes. If you love him and he loves you, give him a chance.