My boyfriend and me have been together for 17 months now and he doesn't want sex anymore. Rarely does he initate it anymore most of the time he doesn't want to and used to i couldn't keep him off me. He makes excuses all the time and when he comes to my apartment he goes to my living room to talk on the phone? Why does he do this and if he is cheating how can I catch him?
2006-12-24 11:12:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or using his right hand quite a bit.
2006-12-24 11:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would really be hard for me to answer your question because I haven't had sex with my boyfriend for over three months and I'm not cheating. Although, through experience, I think that the male species is very different than the female and I have found that if a man does not want to engage in sex anymore then he may very well be cheating. Who knows . . . maybe he has fallen out of love. I very well think that is what is happening with me in the relationship that I am in at the present time.
2006-12-24 11:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will act different and probably start a lot of fights over nothing. Ask to play with his phone and see if hes a little iffy about it, maybe even try to hang out with him AND his friends a lot more. Chances are if his friends are acting a little different around you.. he may be. There may not be a way to catch him, but eventually it will bite him in the 'you know what'.
2016-05-23 04:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is cheating and deep down you no he is to.It is a very hard thing to face I no because I have been there.You need to get his cell phone when he goes to the bath room check all the out going and in coming and missed calls.Wright the numbers down you don't no.Check his Keys to see if he has more on his key ring.If at all poss able get the keys made.If none of that is poss able then put on a wig and follow him in someone's car.
2006-12-24 11:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know how you feel about this and if he blows it off then theres a good chance that this relationship isn't going to last. It doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating, so don't try to snoop around his stuff and catch him in the act because then he'll have a good reason to be upset with you.
2006-12-24 11:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't thank he is checking he probably is just thanking about proposing or he is thanking about the future like kids he mite not be ready for kids and he realized that so he is trying to wait to he feels ready there are a million different possible reasons for what why he is acting the way he is acting but you don't need to jump to conclusions now if you have possible prof then that's when you need to worry but even then don't come to conclusions about him cheating on you
2006-12-24 11:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by medical junor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be cheating, and you shouldn't jump to that conclusion. He may just not be as hormonal as he once was, or maybe, he's starting to see you as a friend instead of a girlfriend.
Sit him down and talk to him about his behavioral change. Do NOT bring up cheating though, as that'll just upset him.
2006-12-24 11:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a bad sign,but it could be an affair goin on.the only
way is to confront him honestly about it.
2006-12-24 11:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either that, OR he's fed up with your cake and wants to eat something different
2006-12-24 11:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by The Isht! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he cheatin or just not that into you
2006-12-24 11:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋