well he is soooo sweet but he isnt assertive at all!! but i dont want to leave him or anything..cuz we really lik each other and all but i am soo used to guys doing watever they want and yes i hav tried to just get used to it but..i cant! so please help!!
2006-12-24 11:06:10 · 12 answers · asked by alison b 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, just sit him down and say... "honey/baby/sweetie, we need to talk." And just tell him " i really appreciate what you do for me, but i think it would be better if you became more assertive." at least thats what i think. Lol.
2006-12-24 11:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the subsequent time he touches you, be at liberty to combat him back. Push the f*ckhead away, or kick him interior the groin. cope with it as sexual harassment and tell a supervisor so as that something could be performed. "something for you, my love" = I easily have A BOYFRIEND, close UP AND seem for somebody else outdoors of paintings! (Being in a relationship with somebody at paintings is unethical in my opinion - there is extra flaws than reward besides) Be reliable, be hard and intimidate him adequate to get the he.ll faraway from you. This lady I paintings with - Kristen - have been given a huge bear/face hug from a 40 5 year previous guy named Eddie whos bald, fat, and basically a undeniable self-universal, smug *ssh*le. I advised her to advance her obstacles and do handshakes with him next time he needs a hug. P.S. you're able to try this without your boyfriend! it's going to make your self extra powerful and your relationship would be extra powerful too.
2016-10-05 23:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You turn flirting situations into a game of competition. When he makes does anything nice for you, seize the opportunity to invite him into engage in some friendly competition of flirt and tease. Teasingly say, "Are you flirting with me....I can do better than that" then let the fun times begin. Make sense?
2006-12-24 11:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by curiousJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just mention to him that you would like him to be a bit more assertive or decisive. That it would be nice of him to make some choices so that you did not have to. Also mention that if you are bothered by one of his choices then you will let him know. Just pleae do this.
2006-12-24 11:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you go to a womans shelter and ask them how
they would make a guy assertive,if you can't get used to
that then break up with him.
beware of the enabler syndrome,where by you like being
dominated some.there are women like this.
2006-12-24 11:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be up front and tell him that you want him to be more assertive.
2006-12-24 11:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually will just tell them straight out. I don't like giving hints because they don't always work.
good luck.
2006-12-24 11:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. (The honey, baby, sweetie sounds good.) Then reinforce it whenever he's acting too passive, tell him what you would prefer he do in that situation.
2006-12-24 11:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you want it really is that easy.
2006-12-24 11:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him examples and tell him what it does for you if hes like that.
2006-12-24 11:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Scot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋