This grl and I went out for about 6-7 months. In the beginning it was great, we had a lot of first times together and I thought it was really special. But as the months went by, I notice that our relationship went down the drain and I tried my hardest to keep our relationship alive. But in the end it didnt go work out. I notice that we did fight a lot but we made up. Now we are just friends and shes told me that she only thinks of me as a friend now and does not like me the way she did before. Also, she said that if she could change the past she would have never gone out with me because it would be less drama and we wouldn't end up hurting one another. I know I should move on with my life but a part of me wants her back and give this relationship another shot.
2006-12-24 10:48:25 · 21 answers · asked by azndragon72487 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-24 10:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Doesn't sound like it in this case. She's made it clear how she feels so it's time to move on. And it will take time to 'get over it' and truly think of her as only a friend and nothing more but I promise you'll get there!
It's always a good thing to space yourself from the other person for awhile, too. This will allow you to deal with your emotions to help the healing go quicker with less drama (plus it's not fair to make her feel like she has to take care of your feelings).
If a relationship is meant to be, things will fall into place - not be a constant struggle.
2006-12-24 11:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by tow_matertater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing, and it hurts alot, especially when your the one who caused the damage.
As hard as it is to take in, she's clearly moved on. If she 'regrets' going out with you, than it's best not to keep pushing for it to happen a second time around. I know it sucks when that person is always on your mind and theres nothing you can do about it. But someone great will come along, just remember the good times you had together, she can be a great memory, and still good friends. Give yourself a little space and time to yourself to get over her.
Things will work themselves out.
I wish you only the best with everything.
2006-12-24 11:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get the chance to be with her again, do all the same things that you did at the beginning of the relationship to win her heart in the first place. Maybe you have been taking her for granted and don't "cherish" her as much or at least don't show it.
Your actions speak your feelings and perhaps she thinks you don't really care for her. Show her that you do.
Good luck.
2006-12-24 10:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, yes there is a second chance for a broken heart.
In your case though, she has made it clear that she doesn't like you the way she did before and would change the past if she could. Therefore, your second chance will not be with her. Move on and find someone else to give your heart to.
2006-12-24 10:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help to know how old you are . But my thoughts on your Q is, your were prob. one of those really overly nice guys us women seem to toss aside for a loser/or @ least a guy who stands up for himself . If that's the case you need to stand up & dont let any girl walk on you . Dont be a complete jerk,but there is always hope for you and you friend . But sometimes people are much better as friends than lovers.So dont lose a great friend .
2006-12-24 10:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by miabear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship takes two interested parties. If you want it and she doesn't, it isn't going to work. You deserve someone who wants you as more than just a friend. And trust me, when a gal says she likes you as a friend, she means it.
Second chances do happen, but only if both people are willing to give it another go....
2006-12-24 10:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by eddie girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! The relationship is over, just move on. Enjoy the holidays! Go and have a couple drinks with friends.
2006-12-24 10:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by JRE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean exactly, i'm going through exact same thing as you are, went out with my ex for 6 months, she broke it off cuz commitment issue, and that she doesn't feel the same anymore. we remained friends right after we break up and i'm in the same dump hole as you are... dumpfounded...
i guess that with all the holidays coming up this isn't helping you either, i'd suggest that you tell her you love her still and want to take things very slowly this time...you'd be more understanding and you would never ever hurt her..tell her not to be scare..
mail me at lamterrinator@yahoo.com if you wanna talk
2006-12-24 11:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by tele t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specific supply him yet another risk yet in basic terms you %. the fee of the dating. Which would desire to be at a consistent simmer particularly of boiling! If he freaks out that must be three times and to me that's a development! He needs to appreciate this up front that one extra freak out and there is not any wish for him. which will decrease out all of the pinnacle video games and drama.
2016-12-15 07:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by lesniewski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows that you like her and she is playing on you. She sound like a drama queen.
And there is more chance for broken heart. It takes time but, there is. You just have to go for it don't be afraid move on.
God be with you
2006-12-24 10:56:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋