the things that i need to change is my attitude, the way i am with her. My jealousy, and the way i treat her.............i mean i dont treat her bad.......but i can treat her better than i did........ive treated her good sometimes, then sometimes i dont............
2006-12-24 10:48:07 · 7 answers · asked by chris h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All stuff that you're able to do. Jealousy is a hard habit to kick. My fiance and I have issues with that. The thing is, if she is faithful to you, then you have nothing to be jealous of.People need friends, people need family, and they need someone to love who loves them back. All about balance.
Another thing, sometimes it's hard NOT to take someone we love for granted. It's the little things you do that count. Offer to take her and a best friend of hers out to dinner. Make a special candle light dinner for you and her one night. Allow her the space to have her alone time. When she says she wants to spend time talking with you, go somewhere neutral, like to a coffee shop or something to talk, and listen...I mean...really listen and respond, let her know you're alive and in love with her. I promise you, you do this, and you won't believe how wonderful things will be.And also, one last thing, keep the communication alive in the relationship, and when issues arise, sit down and talk...come to a compromise.
2006-12-24 10:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by mirmade13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it as changing who you are; you would just be dealing with the way you react to certain situations. Have more trust in her, because when guys start acting jealous anytime a girl goes out with friends (even when there are guy friends as well) it will push her away, because nobody likes to be controlled. If you talk to her about this, she'll realize that you're trying to make your relationship better. It's really good that you realize you have a problem with jealousy (and especially that you're willing to fix it) and that in itself deserves respect (but don't expect it, since it isn't always obvious that you're doing it and then you'll just be more controlling), so theres a lot of hope. Good luck :]
2006-12-24 18:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by cricket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chnge it if you want to keep her. Good Luck!
2006-12-24 18:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just answer your own question? What are you talking about?
2006-12-24 18:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD ALWAYS TREAT YOUR LADY NICE
2006-12-24 19:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do all those things that you just said!
2006-12-24 19:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by tele t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, what's your question?
2006-12-24 19:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋