i like him a lot and i really want him 2 like me back. It would mean the world to me. But he only wants 2 be friends and yet he tells me we might change to lovers. Its very confusing. I dont know what to do. I think i love him. What should i do?
2006-12-24 10:37:24 · 13 answers · asked by lover girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he just wants some booty and that is all....if you want your relationship like that then go for it...if you want more then just stay friends_
2006-12-24 10:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No boy is worth crying over, and the one who is won't make u cry! same for confusion. sounds like he is only looking for a bed or f*ck buddy, if ur ok with that, that's your business, and it's perfectly fine if your both in agreement. but if u have such strong feelings as u say, it will be more harmful for u, cuz u will probably just develop stronger feelings for him since sex is involved, but he will still only see u as a 'booty call'. i know this sounds harsh, believe me, but i've been where u are, and i'm just trying to tell it like it is. sounds like he is being honest with u, saying he only wants to be friends, and the 'lovers' part just means that he wants a piece of @ss. Sorry! but u should try and find someone looking for the same things u are, and u may develop feelings for them and forget this jerk. let him see what he missed out on! good luck!
2006-12-24 10:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to talk about the guy you like so ill respect you and not tell you what i think of him but you should consider that if you became lovers he wouldn't take your relationship seariously all he'll care about is what he's getting and you'll always long for more
2006-12-24 10:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by may the force be with you 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't do it. If he only wants to be friends and lovers it is not worth the heart ache you will have in the end. Move on. Don't take that as rude best believe it is experience.
2006-12-24 10:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well all relationships start off as just being friends. give it some time and then when you and him are both comfrotable with each other than it will move on to the next stage. dont sweat it and just give it time dont rush things or they will mess things up for you and him.
2006-12-24 10:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is saying he is willing to use you sexually, but he doesn't value you enough to have you as a girlfriend.
Dear, forget what they tell in magazines. If you like a guy, NEVER let him know it. Men value women who make them feel unworthy. Men chase women who they find to be a challenge to get.
2006-12-24 10:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don’t do it. Keep your integrity and sanity by waiting to have sex after marriage and not before.
You want a clean conscience for the rest of your life.
2006-12-24 10:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he said that, I would think that he wants to be friends and have sex, but not a serious relationship.
2006-12-24 10:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by paulooly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sis... He's just trying to see if he can get some bootay. All mind games and you are SO falling for it!
STOP IT!
2006-12-24 10:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by Content One 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else who would reciprocate your feelings as opposed to just enjoying your company for sex.
2006-12-24 10:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋