Im only 17 but i loveeeeeeee older men like in there 40s , 50s , 60s?

Question

is this weird, when i go out, i get alot of men in my age, and in there 20s coming on to me. but im not intrested . i prefer men who are alot older than me . my friends tell me that old men are disgusting and there all perverts. i think being with men in there 40s, and 50s are gorgeous. and i like men in there 60s too. i dont know what it is about older men. is anyone else like me
by the way i have a father and we have a healthy relationship,i just dont like guys around my age, i find the older guys rerally sexy and more turned on around them

Additional Details

6 hours ago
i was with a guy who was 48 in the royal navy and he was the best lover ive ever had. and the sexiest men ive ever met.
and older men arent just looking for sex. im 18 next week by the way

Answer 1

If you are askign about it, then you are conscerned at least a little. Why dont; you go talk to a counselor or something? Just to be on the safe side, work through anything you might need to and then decide how to handle this. You dont want to miss out on the best years of your life playing grandma to a bunch of kids and playing crochet and bingo. (j/k but you know what I mean). Those hot young guys won't be looking at you forever! And when you get out of this phase, you might regret it. You may want to have yourown family some day and have passed up that oppertunity to take care of someone elses.

Answer 2

older men r more mature, not all are perverts. they just know what they want in life n they been through alot, they know how 2 treat a woman. some do anyway...i know mine does :)

i dont c anything wrong with wanting an older man. my man looks like hes in his 20s lol from what people tell me, i just sit back n laugh because i know the truth.

hes a great guy a great friend, the best lover ever & not to mention hes a great father.

so no there is nothing wrong with older guys.

i heard it all from do u want a daddy? 2 hes old enough 2 b ur dad, i dont care because i love him more then anything.

we have more in common then most ppl would believe.

follow ur heart not others words

Answer 3

Go girl Go! I luv older men. I turned 18 10 days ago and have the greatest desire to be with older men.

I've always been this way, I wish i could clone my step-dad, he is oh so "hot". I have dated a guy in his 50's, another in his late 40's, and i've found they are so much more respectful than guy's in their late teens and 20's.

The sex is so much better. Seems like the older guys put alot more into it than younger guys, and the experience they have helps them to satisfy a woman alot more.

I'll never go back to a guy my age or even close to it.

I don't think you are wierd. Go for the older guys they are the best.

Answer 4

Okay, a man's perspective here...

I'm in sales so I meet a lot of people everyday and I know that your attraction to older men is not uncommon. I also agree with the "sugar daddy" comment because when younger women come onto me, it's usually what they are looking for.

Personally, though, as long as you are legal and mature, I don't think it's weird or inherently wrong. In fact, I think it's just as natural as it is for most men to prefer attractive, shapely women. Btw, my dad was 20 years older than my mom.

I say, go for it.

Answer 5

your friends are jerks
you love who ever you want
if you are over age

American youth is obsessed with this age limit
somebody of 20 can love somebody of 30 but if it is 40 they are disgusting ,how absurd .
time does not stand still

,not only old people die
you can die when you are young as well.

life goes on and everybody ages continuesly

and the quality of Minds or mentality is not relevant to age
there are stupid old people as well as stupid young people
i wanted to stay 11 forever ,i almost made it
but the damn body betrayed me ,at 60 i do not feel much different than when i was 20
and then i was a lot more disgusting and perverted than i am now .
ha ha

Answer 6

it will never work,you are too young being of childbearing age and he's old enough to have kids older than u.
u say he's the best lover u've ever had,i worry that u can
have so many lovers at the ripe old age of 17.
i suggest u talk to someone about this,there's somthin wrong inspite of you and dad having a normal relationship.
by the way this advice comes from a 46 year old man

Answer 7

Be strong. Wait until you are in your twenties to act on this desire. I think older men could manipulate you. I know that you are 17 and you have some experience in dating, but older men will work you over. Wait for your mind to catch up with your body, which will happen in about 8 years. It is ok to have all kinds of desires, but you don't have to act on them.

Answer 8

I know it's sad, but its possible you were sexually/physically touched/abused by an older man; father, grandpa or male relative. when you were younger and now its having its psychological effects. It is rather disturbing thought. If a man at that age wants you, he is only after 1 thing, and it sure as hell isn't love. He wants SEX!!!!. Just be careful seek counseling or something

Answer 9

I agree. Only in their 30's and early 40's though. Older men just seem mature and sexy, I dont know why either. Yum.

Answer 10

I Think That U Love Him As Ur Father but U Don't Know