i feel that i do not climax to my 100% when a guy is inside me or even when he puts his fingers inside i can only get pleasure if he plays with the correct spot is this normal im afraid to tell him so i just fake enjoyment. i really enjoy the orgasim part of it but if intercourse sex is really better than how can i make it better what can i use or how can i go about it ect.
2006-12-24 10:06:06 · 8 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy and have some experience with different females, each I adored. If he is any kind of man, he is enjoying the pleasure you recieve more than his own. We as males have no issues reaching orgasm so watching you and pleasing you should be our main goal. Tell him what you need or better yet just become more vocal or move more when he is touching or doing something right. Beleive me he will enjoy being told what makes you go off like a bottle rocket !!! Males take great pride in pleasing a woman.
2006-12-24 10:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that only 1% of women enjoy a climax with just intercourse so it sounds like you are a typical female. If you need more foreplay just ask for it. Just because you don't climax doesn't mean that you can't enjoy the intercourse. Try to just enjoy the feel of him in you and not concentrate on the fact that you haven't climaxed yet. If you are not finished when he has finished just ask him to keep playing or satisfy yourself, most guys don't mind this and can even be re-energized by it. Find your voice and let him know he has to finish the job he started.
2006-12-24 10:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different. Tell him how you feel and what gives you pleasure. If he cares about you he will be pleased to learn about it in order to make you happy. Honesty in that case seems to me the best policy. Ask him also about what brings him pleasure so you could both compromise and enjoy it fuller together. Good luck.
2006-12-24 10:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are normal most women do not climax with intercourse. I only climax with oral sex though i enjoy intercourse too.
2006-12-24 11:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others on this one. Just give him a little guidance and it will be fine.
2006-12-24 10:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's a size thing.. try a dildo bigger than his pen-is and compare the feeling if you like the dildo then you have a problem or maybe he does...
2006-12-24 10:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you like him to touch you...show him...trust me he will be willing to learn_
2006-12-24 10:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each individual is diffrent so u cant compare
let him know...wat u want n need
use one thing...IMAGINATIONS
2006-12-24 10:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by heleanthusovulia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋