i love my bf and he loves me back we do everything tegether he wants to have it and i do too when should we have it
i mean where and when
2006-12-24 09:57:17 · 17 answers · asked by erikaolsen12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not let anyone persuade you to do it if you are not ready to. If he loves you, he will wait for you. Also, are you legal? Is he legal? if he's legal and you are under age It will be a crime and vice versa. If you are both teenagers , I would advise you to wait. The odds of you ending up marrying that person are not great. If so, you have plenty of time to think about sex. Focus on school and being a productive ,accomplished and mature adult and then you will know when it is right. You might have a lot of growing up to do if you are a teenager still.
2006-12-24 10:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to have fun with your bf i suggest you and him come up with a plan. like pick 2 days out the week for you and to have fun with your own friends. that should work. but if you are trying to have fun with each other then i suggest a treasure hunt in the mall. my bf and i did that and we had a great time. i made a list of clues for certain stores and he did the same, and we swapped papers and went to go get the things we thought they were. then we met back up at the food court and ate and reviewed the each others list. it was so funny and we had a great time, because some of the stuff we got were wrong and some of the stuff we got were right, but it was fun. oh, yeah, we also timed it. we had 30 min. to get 10 things on the list. man we had some fun that day!!!!
2006-12-24 10:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by ken's princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do it if you ready remember that sex comes with all suprizes go wild do it in place where you are alone where you can moan shout and completley enjoy not worrying about others hearing or seeing you prefrably in a bed or on a flat surface and WHEN when you kiss and know its time to rip eachothers clothes off have fun sex is great
2006-12-24 10:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if, as you've stated you WANT to have fun but can't ------
try NOT WANTING to have fun and see what happens !
Make sure you have talked about and taken preventive measures for birth control...now if you've miss worded your real question and what you really wanted to ask was ---
i want to have sex but can't----then i suggest you find an adult you can talk with & trust. ..........you would be doing yourself a huge favor to have the input & advice from an adult who knows all of your particulars which we out here in cyber space don't know such as your age amongst other things --------
2006-12-24 10:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i know how you feel you acan always have fun it doesn't have to be intimate. Where definatley in a bed room. And when how about tom. on Christmas. sounds good. a night u wont forget. don't be nervous either... good luck
2006-12-24 10:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas night in a place that is dear to both of you. Or a hotel.
2006-12-24 10:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats your all problem..you need to do it when you feel ready,you should know where and you should know when,it should feel right if you all are ready..don't plan it nobody every plans sex..and be safe and careful..becareful of your actions...
2006-12-24 10:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by carly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right, you will know. My boyfriend and I are going to wait until marriage. That is right for us.
2006-12-24 09:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should wait till marriage
2006-12-24 10:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by babygurl21 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
how about when you two are married, or whenever you two are ready.oh, and in a bedroom.
2006-12-24 10:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋