2006-12-24 09:50:17 · 16 answers · asked by jbbsbrock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you are going to be very vocal and play "warmer-colder" while he moves around to different areas and does different things. If he hears "colder, colder, ice cold" a couple of times he should get the message that that particular move does nothing for you. But when he hears hotter, hotter, coming" even a truly dense man should get the message that you enjoy some things more than others.
2006-12-24 10:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by togetheradecade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every man is an expert in down-line recreation and it is the same for women. If this is a must for you, then you have a problem not easy to manage. Certain things are not taught or are not easy to teach. They come already packaged" either you have it or you don't" Focus on what he has good going for him and use the downtown activity like icing on the cake. It's there but that is not the cake!
2006-12-24 18:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "I love you. But when you perform oral sex on me, I need to give you some pointers on what I like and what feels good for me."
Then you strip and hit the bed and give plenty of directions - "do just what i say this time so you can learn -- down there first, now in there, now move up there - take it easy, now pull the little hood back, now go to town" - and so on.
after you pop a couple off, tell him good job, high five him, then return the favor.
2006-12-24 17:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a video and make him watch it with you. Find a specialty one! That should do it. Men don't like following directions but, hey you can always try that. It beats sitting there going ho hum! Maybe you can grab the remote and start channel surfing in the process, that will get him a message!
2006-12-24 17:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by laurameetsworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point him in the right direction and tell him how good it feels. Communicate your needs to him.
2006-12-24 19:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he is down there and is doing something you like then start moaning and say wow that feels really good...praise him...they like that...don't tell him he is doing it wrong then he may not want to even try...just work with him...try moving around while he is down there and when you get him where it feels good stop and say right there...and stuff like that
2006-12-24 17:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, other than coming right out and telling him...(no pun intended) I guess you'll have to use your hands to move him to the right places ......tell him not to be so rough as I'm sure that's what you're complaint is......
2006-12-24 17:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you have sex and he goes for it try to give him clues without exposing that he doesn't do it right. when you like a spot tell him: right there ,or you may say from time to time give me your tongue now or something similar depending on what he does.. with time i think he will learn what you like and adjust..
2006-12-24 17:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would appreciate the advice or even lessons
2006-12-24 17:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by Sid B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm........maybe say " Hey, have you ever heard of the clitoris? Do you think maybe you could find it before I fall asleep from the boredom?"
2006-12-24 17:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋