He talked to some girls online that live close by...but sometimes he goes out by himself, he tells me where and calls me ...but there are stupid girls out their that would go out with a guy thats with someone.... ...he gets angry if i even talk to some guy i feel used...he says he needed someone to talk to ..i mean what the hell is tht he gets angry at me but i cant get angry at him.... he says its because of my emotional problem (bulimia) he never even mention it before his known for a year...i think his trying to defend himself with some lame excuse!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-24 09:18:50 · 24 answers · asked by loquitagirl4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your wasting your time...he is cheating on you and using your bulimia to say your crazy...your are fine and dont worry about what people think of you....you dont need him_
2006-12-24 09:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a man cannot stand you talking with him and thinks it's ok for him to pussyfoot around than you are making a mistake to stay with him. If babies happen(and they do( he'll have a ready made excuse to stay away from you. Don't be a statistic. Make a change in your life and lifestyle.
he isn't looking to defend himself. He's looking for an excuse ot cheat. or leave at will while keeping you on the ready.
You need someone who will offer you support and care/love, not some childish half grown internet stud.
You need a caring home and help form friends, family and lovers for your sickness. soemone who recognizes you can be helped and deserve to be helped.
2006-12-24 17:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think that talking on the Internet is cheating, as cheating goes deeper than that, but he sounds like a jerk to me nonetheless. Trust your feelings. You are saying what the h... already girl! Life is to short for that. You should dump him and his double standards. You deserve better than him, girl! I'm sorry if you suffer from bulimia, but his being a jerk does nothing to alleviate the stress already on you, right? Who is he to throw your problems into your face anyway? He needs someone to kick his a.. bad. Good luck finding someone who you have a true connection with, and who will treat you with the dignity and caring respect you deserve!
2006-12-24 17:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay in my opinion, he didnt cheat. He just chatted with her ONLINE. Relax. If they met and went out then, its cheating. In my opinion. Let him go out on his own, if he calls you great, means he was thinking about and cares about you. Let him call you, dont call him ask him were he goes or youll push him away.
There will always be those types of girls out there that will go out with another girls man. Its your man's responsibilty to no act upon it. Now, of course if hes the one persueing then the girl may not know he has a gf.
Now he gets mad that you talk to another guy, thats just guys being guys, its a power trip. They want to be in control. Same with him getting mad at you but you cant get mad at him, its all about control.
Move on, you dont want someone to control or someone who thinks they can control you. You both need to respect eachother, and compromise or your relationship will fail.
Go with your intuition.. a womens intuition is never wrong.
2006-12-24 17:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by Chunkerbutt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
srry bt he is cheatin on u n he myt use lame excuses 2cova up 4himself bt u gotta learn 2use ur brains girl. dump him. they're many fishes in that sea girl, go fetch urself a fishin rod if this fish ain't good find another one!!
g-luck
2006-12-24 17:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by ~fran~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would your "problem" give him any kind of excuse to be dishonest with you? you don't deserve this kind of treatment. my husband never talks to other women unless it's safe (meaning that he knows they don't want him and aren't checking him out). and i do the same for him. if i notice a guys checking me out, i would never talk with him. I'd say dump that joke.
2006-12-24 17:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy is most likey cheating on you. The fact that he is also emotionally and verbally abusing you, is no excuse. Leave him, and move on.
2006-12-24 17:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by moodrojam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I bet he needs someone to talk to, at least your not naive... tell him that it's not right and you should just leave him because I think he might be doing just a little more then talking and he sounds like he's trying to cover his own tracks :) :) :)
2006-12-24 17:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by sexton 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say to him
you have had enough u are gunna go out on ur own and meet some guy y should he b a hippocrite
get out + have some fun
2006-12-24 17:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by xxlilprincesslauren 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you tell him you don't like him scamming online and he still does it, then he's not the one for you...don't waste time....life is precious and shorter than you think
2006-12-24 17:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by redheaded 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋