my finacee and i have been together 4 years and engaged 3 months. we've broke up a couple times but we always get back because we cant go with out each other. i've took her for granted and always got mad over stupid things. and now im paying for it. she's talkin to another guy and i know she dosent liek him. she is tryin to keep her mind off of me, she wont talk to me and i love her to death and im changing my ways......what do i do?
2006-12-24 08:56:49 · 12 answers · asked by chris h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do the same thing she is doing to you. If she doesn't come back, then it was probably not meant to be. It's better to break of an engagement, than a marriage. Many times by the time a guy comes around and realizes his mistake with a woman, it is already too late. Attach this lesson to your file of life experiences and never again take a woman for granted!
2006-12-24 09:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her, stop getting mad over little things.you have to otherwise this will be the end of it all
write her a letter. if she wont answer calls or something like that, if she gets a letter, shes likely to read it. it might sound cheesy but then again, she might love that you did that. tell her how much you care about her and that you want to change how you have been, but you need her help to do it. and take an active part in changing your ways if you love her that much. being in a relationship is a two person thing, if you both dont work on it, it wont work.
2006-12-24 09:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like me and my guy we used to go through the same thing he was just like you i thought i could never do nothing right to make him happy so i left this is how he got me back we were engaged to
he asked me if he could come over to give em some of his things and when he got there he had roses and a poem he wrote expressing all the things he would correct to get me back and all the things he took for granted then he re purposed to me and we have been great since
if this doesn't work i don't know what will just make sure mister man isn't there when you do it
2006-12-24 09:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by pookerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all do not blame yourself for every thing, it takes 2 to tangle here, im sure she has her faults as well, and love is a 2 way street.i know you love her but if shes running around with another guy just to keep u off her mind , thats bad, you dont need that, and its certainly not the way to handle problems, you gotta think ,look what if you married her, will she run around with guys because she want to keep other problems off her mind, love is blind and it sounds like to me u better thank god u did not marry her, listen you dont need headaches in your life, if shes doing that she is no good for you any ways, and its a lack of respect for you reguardless of the problems you both have, dont be a fool because in the long run you will look back and regret it, infatuation sometimes feel like love and its not, if she loved you she would not do what she is doing, remember love dont hurt
2006-12-24 09:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by monatye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me, Esmerelda, which you may desire to easily prefer to legally exchange your call. each and everything has to get replaced after the marriage besides, acceptable? basically exchange your first and final call. If somebody calls you Rachel, basically say that's a family individuals call. or you are able to tell him. as far as your age is going, omit i'm 25, he thinks he's have been given a girl of youngster bearing age, and that i do no longer comprehend once you final checked with your physician, yet i think of you're in a intense possibility age team now. it quite is the only you prefer again clean on. Kudos to you for pulling it off. it quite is the only it is going to have long term consequences on your relationship. He has a acceptable to properly known. I want you success, costly, and God bless you and yours.
2016-10-05 23:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She maybe trying to make you jealous!! Give her time, if you show her you have changed she may take you back. But do expect that it may not happen! Good luck!! happy xmas!!xx
2006-12-24 09:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her that you love her. show her that you love her.
but if she doesn't want you back, leave her alone, because this way you'll be showing her that your love isn't selfish and possessive.
2006-12-24 09:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by goldenheartcity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your ways some more.
2006-12-24 09:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with your history talk is cheap, so you have to show, not tell
2006-12-24 08:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her and call her a slut! j/k. uhhhh you should fight to get her back(not physically)
2006-12-24 08:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by notre1842dame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋