Just curious...
2006-12-24 08:39:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first of all, sometimes it takes a good lover to have a good lover. Teach your lover by example.....show him/her what you like.
2006-12-24 08:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by cynical1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "lacking"? No body parts, no sex drive, no experience?
You can solve most issues by just talking. If it is your life-long partner there should be enough confidence. Also next time you are in the mood try doing something more like what you have in mind.
2006-12-24 16:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell them but maybe say lets try some new things...look up different things over the net or get some movies and do what they do on the movies...telling someone they are lacking in that dept. can really hurt their feelings so be easy on them...remember when they do something that you like to let them know so they do that again....
2006-12-24 16:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if your sex life was active to begin with then died down then there is something else that is the problem any problems in the relationship follows into the bedroom so find out where the problem is fix it and you will see improvement in the bedroom if it has always been like this then you need to tell them and work something out when it comes to love everything can be worked out with commutation and honesty
2006-12-24 16:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by froggy348 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't allow them to become a "life long" partner if anything about them wasn't what I was looking for in a "life long" partner to begin with.
2006-12-24 16:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my partner wasnt kicking in the sex on a regular,i would leave that person.Why make yourself suffer more,find someone that wants the same thing in a relationship as you.
2006-12-24 16:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I most certainly would tell them because if i am with this person forever or long-term or whatever or marriage, i will not let myself be deprived sexually. H*ll no!! No way, not now, not ever! I am super horny now, just wait till i get to my 40s! My fiance better look out!
2006-12-24 16:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first try to steer them in the right direction with body language or moans. If that didn't work then I would sit down and just tell them what exactly I needed.
2006-12-24 16:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them know...seek couples sex counseling or try some toys, get some movies, there's always room for improvement so don't give up my brotha!
2006-12-24 16:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by violet83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur lacking in the sex department hun. that seems most obvious thing to say
2006-12-24 16:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodbye.
2006-12-24 16:42:14 · answer #11 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋