I know it sounds kind of selfish, but I want to lose my virginity with this girl. The thing is, she's also my ex. She is also a virgin, and I always hear about how the first time (even if it was bad) is always memorable and you have that special connection forever.
(The break up was on good terms, and we're still friends, but the break up did happen a while ago)
2006-12-24 08:30:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
once its gone its gone forever....
2006-12-24 08:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT LOSE
WHAT THE HELL U HAVE ALL YOUR LIFE TO LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY IS JUST SEX
ITS NOT WORTH SOMETHING THAT SPECIAL IF ANYTHING
WAIT TILL U MARRY
U ARE NO MORE MAN THAN U ARE NOW LOSING YOUR VIGINITY SO WHY DO IT????
U ARE PROBALLY TO YOUNG ANYWAY
ASK YOURSELF THESE SIMPLE QUESTIONS
ARE U OLD ENOUGH TO MOVE OUT OF YOUR PARENTS HOUSE
ARE U MAKING OVER 8.00 AN HOUR
ARE U OLD ENOUGH TO MARRY
ARE U READY TO BE A FATHER
CAN U SIGN FOR A HOUSE
CAN U RAISE A CHILD NO ASSISTANCE
CAN U DRIVE
DO U HAVE INSURANCE
DO U HAVE A CAR
DO U HAVEA HIGH SHCOOL DIPLOMA
ARE U STILL DEPENDANT ON PARENTS
WHAT IF SHE STARTS HAVING SEX WITH OTHER GUYS AND STILL WITH U
IN CONTACTS HIV THEN GIVES IT TO U
IS IT WORTH IT???
ARE U READY TO RAISE A CHILD AND SACRIFICE ALL OF YOUR CHILD HOOD FOR ONE NIGHT....
IF NO TO MORE THAN 3 OF THESE U ARE NOT READY TO HAVE SEX
SO KEEP THAT THING IN YOUR PANTS UNTILL U ARE MARRIED FIRST OFF AND THEN STABLE EMOTIONALLY, FINANCIALLY, MENTALLY AND ALL..
DONT DO IT TO MANY RISK....
GOOD LUCK
BE ABOVE THE INFLUENCE FOR ONCE..
HAVING SEX DOES NOT MAKE U A MAN.
HAVING SEX CAN KILL U
BYE SWEETY. HOPE I HELPED
2006-12-24 09:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.. you will regret it when you find someone you wished you had saved it for.. But you don't necessarily have to wait til your married..But don't do it just to check it off a list.
Sounds like you are not over her.
Sound like you want the 'connection forever " with her, and that will be hurtful for you, if it doesn't go the way you envision.
2006-12-24 08:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by mscyngrim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time is not always memorable. If you don't like the person or end up hating them, it's better to give it up to someone that means something to you. If you don't really care, and can't get it from your ex, get a hooker.
2006-12-24 08:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by moodrojam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so why didn't you two do that before when you were dating? I think that is so sweet that you want it to be her...maybe talk to her about it since you are on good terms and see what she has to say...let her know what you said on here about how special it is and you want that connection with her...
2006-12-24 08:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it
its not worth doing for
lose it when you find that one girl
even if you have to wait forever
it more worth wild
i regret losing it to one of my ex
cause i wasnt able to feel that special connection with my wife
during our honeymoon
so dont do it
totally not worth it
2006-12-24 08:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by MightyHyphy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think 17 is extremely young...and the truth is ..that you'll probably meet an incredible woman in acouple of years...and you won't have that memorable experience with her...just wait....it'll be worth..it
2006-12-24 10:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you did not manage to lose your virginity the first time, what makes you think you succeed this time?
2006-12-24 08:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lose ur v yet wait until u really feel like it not just 4 curiosity trust me u r not missin anythin!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-24 08:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find someone who is worthy of your love, not your lust.
2006-12-24 08:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it
2006-12-24 08:35:46 · answer #11 · answered by saniyamack14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋