Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 months now and our relationship is great, yeah rocky sometimes but great, when ever she come over my mom, you know we make out, she takes her cloths off but leaves her panties on and she takes my clothes of and leaves me in my boxers. And when i try to pull them down she refusing but I know 100% she wants to, she says she doen't know about sex very much thats why what should i do?
2006-12-24 08:11:16 · 14 answers · asked by Zone1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't no 100% she wants to, you know 100% you want her to want to, I’ve been the same, she's just hor*y and wants some but isn’t ready for s*x do not rush her just cuddle her, ask her what she wants to do, if she says she doesn't no suggest some small things, like ask her if she wants her ni**les stroked eventually she'll get more confident around you until she'll want to to*s you off. Trying to pull her knickers off is pushing her away you have to be loving and understand, be grateful she trusts you enough to go that far, just let her take her time. Even if it takes 3 more months until she’s ready to take them off she'll love you for it. good luck xx
2006-12-24 08:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Hazel_Divine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think there's anything wrong with petting, but when you do decide to follow through on your feelings, are you personally ready to accept responsibility for an accident if it should occur? Listen to her and pay attention to her feelings, and you will definitely be a big winner in her book. If you have questions about what you are getting into, explore the answers together in a caring way. Passion is great, but don't give fate an opportunity to trap you too soon, ok? Life's too short for that. Wishing you all the best in your romantic pursuits this holiday season.
2006-12-24 16:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first if u did have sex then i hope u wouldbe using a condom.
and maybe she just isnt ready. that is fine if u really liked her u would wit for when she is ready and not force her to do anything.
and dont bug her about it or your relationship will either end or will always be rocky. so let her be and if u r in that situation again ask her if she is scared and even if she doesnt say anything tell her that u use protection u should. so really u should wait for her dont rush it!
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2006-12-24 16:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by Meaghan D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you decide not to have sex, draw bounderies. You shouldn't be taking each other's clothes off if you're not going to have sex. It's like eating all the appetizers, but not getting any dinner. Make sure that the both of you are ready and don't pressure her into having sex. Or you can take my route and wait until you're married....
2006-12-24 16:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by shirah_life 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
.Here's another case that 'proof reading' should have occurred....'when ever she come over my mom, you'. Are we to understand your 'mother' is in on this?
Try what is referred to as 'mutual masturbation' for staters. If your mother is watching, I'm sure she can give instructions. When comfortable with masturbation in front of each others company, then proceed to masturbating your partner. That is where you should stop.
If you plan on having the 'full monty', buring the bone,as it were, DON'T go into the dark place without a raincoat (aka condom).
2006-12-24 16:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by LifeRyder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally if she is not ready do not push her. I really believe sex is for after marriage. When she is ready and the time is right she will let you know. However if you feel like she is teasing you and there maybe some one else I say dump her and move on.
2006-12-24 16:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by min 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have to ask, your not responsible enough to have sex. But if you really want to know IM me and I'll tell you how to start and go further
2006-12-24 16:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too young to own or rent your own home, then you are TOO YOUNG to have sex.
It's the responsibility that you are NOT considering.
Wait until you are paying the bills.
2006-12-24 16:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is not even willing to let you two try it together so she may learn, then I would dump her.
She is just not worth the hassle.
2006-12-26 16:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Calculus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until she's ready. u don't want to overwhelm her. when the times right she'll be ready
2006-12-24 16:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋