ok, I have 1 guy who has been my "friend with benefits" for almost 5 years now, not to mention that he is my best friend. then i have 2 guys i've never hooked up with, but they seem like they really like if not love me. 1 of the guys i've known since i was 16 and although he and i both have been with other people, he has been waiting for me, and i for him. the other one i work with, and he is sooooo sweet. how do i make up my mind? when i do, how do i let the others down gently? note...i'm not leading any of them to believe that i'm with only them. it's almost just how they take it.
2006-12-24 08:04:07 · 6 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i swear i have told them all that i just want to be friends.
2006-12-24 08:09:23 · update #1
B.S., tryin' to tell me that you're not leading them on...please.
You can't worry about letting them down gently, you just gotta take the band-aid approach and tear it off. Be up front and honest with these guys and they'll fell better about you and you'll feel like a better woman.
2006-12-24 08:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are sending out signals to lead them to believe one way or the other. Have some integrity and honesty and stop this. Relationships arent about you but both of you. Its not almost just how they take it. It is completely just how you send it.
2006-12-24 08:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by furiousstyles22003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be underhanded, yet in line with threat a white lie could get you out of this one; and whilst the inevitable question of once you're seeing somebody comes around, the respond is you're seeing somebody returned domicile. (C'mon, do no longer tell me you're unlikely to be searching for excuses to spend as lots time in sight of your overwhelm as obtainable on the subsequent holiday! That count quantity's as seeing somebody, precise?) be beneficial to compliment him on the truffles, (I hadn't theory-approximately pistachio's till now. advantageous!) and ask if he needs to choose for a lager after type. in case your overwhelm works out, super. If it would not, after your uni buddy perspectives you as a pal, you could constantly declare it did no longer artwork out with the guy you have been seeing and you do no longer think of you would be interested in relationship for a whilst. D
2016-10-28 07:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u shouldn't take any of them....it's really not fair to any of these guys if only one of them gets u......and especially the fwb u have..........if he cares about u more than just being ur fwb...then ur already leading him on.......just cut the chain on all of them...it might hurt you and them...but then u can all move on
2006-12-24 08:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Charishma S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be who you feel most comfortable with or want to be. Do as your heart says.
2006-12-24 08:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop hanging out with them.
2006-12-24 08:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋