My financee bought this skanky barfly the same gift he got me.. I don't even want to look at it. Wouldn't that be like putting me on that level.. If your boyfriend or girlfriend or your financee bought this skanky person, they call a "friend" that they were sneaking around to see the same gift, what would you do with it? How would you like handle it? It was in the least very disrespectful, even if they are friends.
2006-12-24 07:57:27 · 18 answers · asked by 2cool4fools 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I would have to take the high road on this one .. I would thank him for the gift ,, I would just put it to better use , than the skank puts her's to ,, If you get the drift.. Hey girl, just rub them with a brillo pad and don't even let them know they have been rubbed ..
On The Other Hand If You Prefer To Be A Little More To The Point On How Dissapointed You Are With Your Unwanted Gift , Give It To Her Soooo She Will Have A Pair Of Them ..
Either Way Good Luck To You
It was in very bad taste on his part, but guys are the worst in that department .
SUPER GOOD QUESTION !!!!!!!!
MERRY CHRISTMAS
2006-12-24 08:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More importantly why would you stay with him when "they call a "friend" that they were sneaking around to see"??? I think the isuue about the gift should be a moot point if he's sneaking around with someone else, but I think you want to use the gift as "proof" that he treats you the same as a "skanky barfly". Honestly, who cares about the gift when you already know he's been seeing this other person....
2006-12-24 08:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the gift. ... like if it was something very expensive then that obviously means he cares about you both a lot , in that case u might want him to choose btw. the two of u... if it was something cheap than what does that say about ur relationship? ...uhh how would i handle this situation: mmm cant really say but the first thing that would run through me is why does he care about this other person so much, and as his fiance shouldnt he want to buy something extra special for me? soo id confront him and ask him these two quetions. but then again thats just how i am. u have to go about this the best way you know how but the answer to ur question can only come from him.
2006-12-24 08:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Would Keep It But Not Appreciate It As Much As I Would If He Would Have Bought His One And Only A Special Gift! (When I Say Special, I Mean Something That He Wouldn't Buy Anyone Else!)
2006-12-24 08:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by ILY♥!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would invite your financee to the bar where that 'barfly' is found (whether she is there or not) and place that garment on the barstool, sit on it, and have a long conversation with him. After the conversation, place the garment on the counter as a ' tip ' of awareness. And...I'd keep your own awarenss up or you'll be asking different type of questions on this yahoo answers site after you've been married for awhile.
2006-12-24 08:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh, wait... he's "sneaking around" with her? Then the gift is the least of the problems here. But, yes, I'd be somewhat offended. However, you sound jealous (whether justified or not, I'm not sure). Maybe that's what's behind your taking offense? Are you sure she's just a friend? No offense.
2006-12-24 08:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why are you marrying someone who cheated on you. If he's was sneaking around with her then he'll probably do it later. As for gift, I'd check him on that one. The word friend doesn't mean to much these days except "friends with benefits
'. They aren't just friends if they were sneaking around.
2006-12-24 08:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you are not too fond of this person by your conversation. Would you TRY to understand that he evidentally thinks more of this person than you do and so it would NOT be a "PUT DOWN" from his point of view. I would think that you should try to remember that GOD created man from the dust of the Earth and woman from the rib of man (genesis 1). He He was the creator and will be the JUDGE of all mankind. We are not to judge others. Please try not to hurt her feelings or his. This is Christmas. Try to make it a joyful time for all.
Eds
2006-12-24 08:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you don't sound like a nice person calling someone a terrible name....especially if she's his friend.
However, your boyfriend shouldn't buy anyone else the same gift he gives you....simply because you should be special to him.
Maybe by buying you the same present he's telling you something.
2006-12-24 08:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would be pissed and hurt at the same time. but i know that my fiance wouldnt do that to me because he loves me for who i am and knows what kind of person i am.
should he have done that.. would obviously tell me that he doesnt really care for me or knows how to seperate the line between fiance and friend. i know that it isnt the gift, its the thought that matters, but that's just something uncalled for and very disrespectful to the relationship.
2006-12-24 08:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋