I am an exchange stundent here in the U.S. till June. I found this guy and I like him a lot and he likes me a lot too. Once he came over to my house to talk, and kissed me. Then later that day, he told me he wanted to be really good friends. I think he is afraid of the commitment because, not only has his heart been broken before, but he knows I will have to leave. I don't know what to do. He doesn't want to talk about it. Should I go out with him? Should I tell him that I want to go out? Please help me I am very confused.
2006-12-24 07:38:42 · 17 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he wanted to go out with you, he'd ask you to go out. He doesn't want to, and he isn't interested in talking about it. He told you he'd like to be friends. Accept it.
2006-12-24 07:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel / believe it could be enjoyable to have his company, to eventually (or MUCH sooner) be exchanging body fluids with him (kissing and way down below), you might try a date or two.
"Suit yourself."
Just be sure he knows that-- no matter what else is going on-- you're leaving in 6 months. You could have LOTS of fun between now and June.
2006-12-24 15:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by John1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to enjoy each others company and have some fun for the next 6 months.
He knows what to expect and just having fun can be the beginning of a nice friendship.
2006-12-24 15:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go out with the guy! just make sure when you leave you call or e-mail as soon as you get back home. make a promise to each other that you won't date other people until you come back for a visit. then once you come back you can decide if you still like him and continue going out, or to break up with him because you've lost feelings for you.
2006-12-24 15:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not loose your self respect. if he loves you he will ask for a date..there are 3 words love,like & lust under this situation.. love is the best of all. you said the word" like", make sure what he feels about you, likes you are loves you. if he loves, you can go out with him, but don't be in a hurry, let him ask you. if his heart is broken and if he cannot talk about it let it go.. in this transaction do not break your heart .. Take care.
2006-12-24 16:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by gentle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point if dateing is to make sacrafices.A long distance relationship almost NEVER works out.But,are you willing to go the extra mile 4 this guy?
2006-12-24 15:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him u want 2 go out wit him. He'll take tat into consideration and will most likly say yes. Tell him tat u don't care tat u'll be leaving and tat u still would lik 2 be wit him.
2006-12-24 15:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time girl
his heart has been broken
be there for him
try to mend it for him
tell him that u like him and will always be there for u
u guys like each other
u shouldnt stop cuz of somethin hes scared of
if he cant do it
then u can
=]
goo luck!
2006-12-24 15:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by wassup_94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really likes you, but wants something permanent. Since you're leaving, you can't do that for him, so he's protecting his emotions by not going out with you.
2006-12-24 15:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you start going out with him there is a chance you will end up with two broken hearts.
2006-12-24 15:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋