2006-12-24 07:21:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, dont go out with him, go out with someone like me that will treat you good.
2006-12-24 07:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh sweety, if hes kinda a player hes a player. No if ands or buts about it. Being nice is part of his evil plan to make you fall inlove/like him so he can have his cake and eat it to. And no he cant just lick the frosting either.
You are or will get hurt. Even if you go for it and you know what your getting into your still gonna get hurt. And if you go for it and dont put all your feelings into it at first eventually you will.. it always happens.
Just remember this, eventually you will get your heartbroken it may not be by this guy or the next but you will at some point in time you will. Its part of life and dating. Just the way it is toots!
Your going to do what you want, regardless.
2006-12-24 07:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Chunkerbutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If your old enough to look after your self and you do not want to have a relation ship with this guy, honestly you can not have a relation ship with a player I went out with a ''inexperienced'' player for 2 years, on and off of course, they never settle down and even if he loves you he needs to cheat it's like a religion I suppose. If you just want a quick fling with a hot guy then yhear go for it, get him to pay for every thing, go to the nicest places and have loads of hot s*x (all ways use protection with guys like him he will have been every where) and if your not that kind of girl stay away from him. The number 1 rule is don't get attached if you stick to that rule then it can be the best few weeks ever, but if your not able to drop him with out looking back then he's got you under his thumb an then that’s it your heart is broken. Good luck xx
2006-12-24 07:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Hazel_Divine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u think he's a player? Do u think that he really likes u? I know exactly what u'r going thru, the only difference is, this guy is my best friend. But one thing i've learned hun, is 2 stop letting ppl buzz in ur ear tellin u what THEY think..it's what u think n what u feel. If u think he's worth a try 2 go out with, give it a try, because this day n time ppl never know what's really inside a person. Of course, if ur agreeing with these people in the back of ur mind n u actually think he is a player, n u still want 2 go out with him, that just goes 2 show that u know xactly what ur getting in2, so u won't be surprised in the end if he actually did turn out 2 be 1..but in ur case, it's what u think..don't let ppl buzz all in ur ear about their own opinions..it's THEIR opinions. Who knows, they could b hatin 2..u never kno..but it's what YOU wanna do..hope i helped u..PEACE N LOVE!!
2006-12-24 07:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Musically Inclined 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, he's either a player or not. There's no "kinda". If he's done it to someone else, he'll propably do it to u. If you have doubts about the guy, you are most likely on to something. And what makes players so good is that they find a girl who will fall for thier charming act and then it becomes so easy to play girls. I say this world is bigger than you and I both know, and it's not worth getting your heart broken over a guy you know is a player. Wait for someone worth it.
2006-12-24 07:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by vada 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as kinda a player, either he is or he isn't. From the looks of it he is so don't waste your time because if you fall for him and he ditches you for someone else (like they all do), you will get hurt, and that's something you don't want. So spare yourself the heart ache and choose someone who's actually going to appreciate you and treat you with the love and respect you deserve. Don't sell yourself short, it's not worth it.
2006-12-24 07:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you can go out with him. But know what you're getting into. If you ever suspect that he's cheating on you or anything like that, quietly and subtly try to find out if he is. (Don't stalk him.) He might be a really nice, caring guy, who just hasn't found a relationship he wants to commit to yet. But he also might be a self-centered jerk who only wants to get in your pants and then leave ya for another girl. So just be careful and try not to let yourself get too caught up, in case he breaks your heart.
2006-12-24 07:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, you should go out with him, but be careful, look for signs that he's seeing someone else:mysterious phone calls, dressed up for 'a night with the boys', etc. Also, make it known that you are going out, that way, if someone sees him with another girl, they can tell you.
2006-12-24 07:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your strongest instinct. it happened to me and good happened. but before that when it happened bad happened. you just have to use your best judgement and hope the guy is a better person and will treat you the way he should... even thought he is a player, you can always change that... =) ML <<3
2006-12-24 07:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dino love♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! But you'll do it anyway. You'll find out the hard way and get hurt. But you won't learn your lesson. You'll do it again. And then again. And you'll get bitter and think all men are dogs. You'll never look within yourself and realize you are just attracted to dogs. I've watched several of my friends do it.
2006-12-24 07:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by Sarbanes Ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋