What age is appropriate to start sleeping with a bf/gf?

Question

When would you begin letting your son's/daughter's stay over, and sleep in the same bed as your son/daughter?

Answer 1

I think that a person should talk to their child about this, not strangers, yo.

Answer 2

it all depends in which society you live. is this India? or Eskimo land? or plain USA, but what social and economic backgrounds? is this Africa or south America or traditional land or china or japan? the list goes on. every culture, every custom practiced by societies have different unwritten rules and regulations. so number one we can not generalize. number two it depends also to a large extent upon one's own family and familiar environment --at what age the sleeping together is allowed -- with the obvious notation that is not really "sleeping" but waking up to a brave new world with lots of new responsibilities. I hope you are reading in between the lines the real message. in one word it depends on the maturity of the couple -- and all the other factors as outlined above, plus add your own beliefs and feelings you get a mi sh-mash of things to consider before you go to sleep. Hope it helps. From someone, who passed that stage.

Answer 3

25

Answer 4

As far as how I was raised, never. But, if you are condidering it... age has little to do with it. Its about maturity. Are they educated enough to use protection? If they are, then are they mature enough to handle a baby incase protection fails? Condoms work 73% of the time according to my Obgyn, although the box says otherwise. She should be on some kind of birth control. Even with both, there is always a chance of pregnancy. Are they both financially secure to handle a baby, just in case? Are you ready to be a grandmother? They may have sex alot and never conceive.... the less they are able to have sex the less chance of anything unplanned happening. If you allow them to sleep together in your home, it increases the chances. They may have sex outside the home, but won't be able to have nearly as much if they must sleep apart.

Answer 5

17

Answer 6

I would never want my son or daughter to be sleeping with the opposite sex. It's going to happen, but it will never happen in my house. So I guess this is all up to you and if you are willing for your kids to get pregnant.

Answer 7

Condoms are bought over-the-counter so any age could purchase them. while i replaced into in junior extreme although, in my intercourse ed classification they started giving out condoms to us and chatting with us approximately risk-free intercourse. via that factor i think of i replaced into 13. So the youngest age variety I even have seen so a great way is 13-sixteen.

Answer 8

just sleeping in a bed or actually like sex in bed. i don't know but the first time i screwed i was in my freshman year of highschool. my mom said that as long as i told her first so she could get me condoms. and i did, so i had protection. now i'm in my Sr. year almost done with highschool. now if i had kids, it would be diffrent, as long as my son had a condom i would be fine. now if i had a daughter, she better be married or over 18, cause i wouldn't want her being knocked up or else she'd be going to the abortion place.

Answer 9

PSH...never. I was never allowed to do that and I don't think that it is appropriate at all! I can't believe you would even ask that question. I am 18 and I wouldn't even consider asking my parents to allow me to do that. You are the mother/father, you lay down the law. WHy would you even consider letting them sleep together? HOw WEIRD!

Answer 10

You shouldn't allow that in your house. If the boyfriend/girlfriend just so happen have to stay the night, make them go in a separate room. But that shouldn't be allowed until one of them get their own place. Because if you start that now, they won't stop, then when you least suspect it someone might have sex in your house and that is disrespectful. So nip that in the butt now.