Just wanted to know what majority of you guys thought:
Would you stay with a boyfriend/girlfriend when you know in your heart you should break up with them? Instead of dealing with the pain that comes with breaking up
2006-12-24 06:36:16 · 11 answers · asked by asianflava 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh...I'm in a simular relationship now. She is sooo good to me and would do anything for me, and I could not ask for a better person, but I'm not sexually attracted to her. I have to call it off, but I am letting her down slowly. I try to encourage her to go out more with her friends in which she does in hope she find someone else to spend time with her, but it backed fired on me, cause she says that her other boyfriends never trusted her to go out. I don't use her in the sense of asking her for things, and in fact I can't think of one time I asked her for anything. I have a hard time to tell her that the relationship is over because I'm not sexually attracted to her. However she is sweet as a whisle. I know that my motives for having a relationship are not at the right place, cause I couldn't ask for a better woman thats going to treat me good.
2006-12-24 07:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say it is the right thing to do, but I have. I was with this girl for a year and a half and things were headed for the end. She was my first sexually and my first love. Even though I knew it was headed for the end, I didn't want to break up with her cause I knew how much it would hurt. Plus I felt like I wouldn't ever be able to be that close with another girl. I was young and stupid, so I prolonged it as long as possible and it just ended up with us disliking each other even more.
2006-12-24 07:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Danny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would break up with him because it's not fair to you and especially him if you know that you shouldn't be with him. Why keep him around if your heart is not into it? I say move on and let him move - things will be okay. Good luck!
2006-12-24 06:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to stay with them as long as i could, but i know it wont work out so eventually id break up.
2006-12-24 06:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break off when u know u should. u shouldn't be in a relationship out of pity
2006-12-24 07:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by mistress_ 9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The relationship would only become strained and resentment would grow to hatred.
2006-12-24 06:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt make something last longer then it should. break up
2006-12-24 06:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let her down softly... if a relationship isnt fun anymore there is no point in being in it...
2006-12-24 06:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it
2006-12-24 06:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT B4 THEY DO
2006-12-24 06:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by RRRRRRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋