well my girlfriend told me last night that she doesn't feel sexy like she use to . Before guys use to check her out and now she doesn't feel sexy.I feel that she wants more attention from other guys than me.
2006-12-24 06:34:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all. She is just feeling a little insecure. Its fun to have other men want you only to tell them that they have no chance in hell because you have a man. Makes us feel like there is a whole lot for our guys to desire, we feel more confident. Its nothing. Just tell her that she hasnt lost her touch and she is sexier than she has ever been...Its nuthin to stress over...You know how us women are..
2006-12-24 06:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your job to make her feel beautiful and sexy. Compliment her everyday. Let her know how beautiful she is to you. ANd how much you love her. Tell her all the nice things there is to say. She will eventually get it through her head and start feeling more better about herself. That's what my BF do to me and I'm only 24 weeks pregnant. It helps..just take a bit of time for some women.
2016-05-23 04:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You're sexy to me, you'll forever be sexy to me"
Something like the above might work, especially accompanied by marriage -- you didn't say how long this bf/gf relationship has been going. If it's been a long time, without commitment, all things are being considered.
All of us need some reassurement of our desirability from our partners occasionally. Sometimes, catching an unexpected reflection of you from a mirror, instantly reminds you that you are not the person you once were. Sadly, some of that sexiness that once was has dissipated.
Reassurance cost you nothing, give it up.
2006-12-24 07:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the other people that tell you that you need to make her feel special blah blah blah... They aren't reading your question. Your girlfriend specifically pointed out that the attention she is missing is from other guys on the street, not you. You need to ask her why she feels she needs this attention from strangers and that attention from you isn't good enough. Besides why have they stopped looking? Has she gained weight? Had a baby? You need to be careful because if this is the case, it could be a slight case of depression and she could need to see a doctor for professional help.
2006-12-24 07:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by Danny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let see. maybe YOU should check her out more. Look at her and admire the things you were first attracted too, often!! Believe me she will notice if you do. Try little simple things like sneaking up behind her and putting your arms around her. When you sit down sit close to her and put your hand on her knee or hold her hand. There are so many little things that women find endearing and they make her feel desirable (or sexy). Just make sure they come from you if you want her around.
2006-12-24 06:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by twink3110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that IS a little weird that she would actually desire other guys attention. But I guess when you're used to that kind of attention and you don't get it anymore, you start to doubt yourself. Just tell her that YOU think she's sexy and it doesn't matter if other guys check her out or not. It should only matter that you check her out, and that you think she's beautiful always. Tell her not to doubt herself.
2006-12-24 06:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl needs validation.
Give it to her, tell her how sexy she is and always compliment everything about her, like her thighs her feet her back even her ears, let her know she turns you on just with her looks alone.
Girls will seek attention from other guys only if their guy is not giving enough, trust me.
2006-12-24 06:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she doesnt want more attention from other guys guys, its just that she doesnt think shes as pretty as she used to be. shes realizeing that shes getting older and "uglyer" but being a guy you wouldnt neccesarily understand that 100%. right now just give her some time be with her but when asks for some space give her some dont hover over her all the time. let her know that you trust her and that you think shes beautiful no matter what.
2006-12-24 06:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by *~I Love You~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she doesn't need men with raging hormones to make her feel sexy. But i think ALL women want to feel sexy so buy her some naughty lingerie to make her feel better.
2006-12-24 06:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mz.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes definitely crying for help. Help her out by telling her shes sexy and then do her all day!
2006-12-24 06:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋