she told me i didn't have too hide anything form her but i felt like she wouldnt undestand me so i took her car and she found out and she say she dosen't belive anything i say i wannt do the right thing but i seems like somrthing want let me she thinks my boyfriend is a thug...ect...he's not at all he cares about me but she says he dosen't she thinks she knows everything about me there is too know and she dosen't at all...then i might be execpting a baby bye him and i don't know how to tell her or my dad but if i am she is going to have too get over how ever she feels about him because i am goin too have a child bye him and he is gonig to see his child weather or weather not she likes it
2006-12-24 05:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
♥ ♥ you have to work at getting their trust one day at a time, be honest with them, show them respect, and hopefully they will get to know him like you do, provided he stands by and helps you with the baby ♥ ♥
2006-12-24 05:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am at a loss here. Society has certainly changed since I was a kid, where the most you ever did with a boy is hold hands. None the less, I think your parents should invite that boyfriend of yours over to the house, and have a long talk with him about the house rules. While you can not help that you love him, as a young girl - you should not be having intimate relationships with any boys until you are married, and that being no time before the age of 19.
The stealing of the car is a secondary issue, you were acting out because your parents were not addressing the issues you are struggling with.
Trust at this point is the last factor in line, the most important now being your safety and well being.
2006-12-24 14:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by EM-water2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an irresponsible and spoiled child. If i were your parent, I would probably send you to boot camp or military school. You are not deserving of anyone's trust, especially your parents. You don't say how old you are, but obviously you live at home. Do you have any respect for your parents? You have taken their car, dated behind their back ( you are dating a guy who doesnt give a hoot about you if he isn't using birth control or even worse; what if he has hiv ? He is not protecting you or looking out for your best interest at all) and you aren't even responsible enough to take precautions into your own hands. Sounds to me like u are not trying to gain trust from your parents, but completely trying to destroy the morsel of any faith they may still have for you. Keep it up and you will probably end up on the street. I will pray that a child will not be a result of your appalling behavior.
2006-12-24 14:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by parapluie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since you live under your parents roof and THEY are responsible for you you need to follow their rules. When you took the car they COULD have had you charged with grand theft auto which is a FEDERAL offense here in the U.S. and you could have wound up in MAJOR trouble. IF you were my child that is EXACTLY what I would have done, maybe THAT would have changed your attitude. As for your pregnancy, again you are living under your parent's roof and THEY have the right to decide who comes into THEIR home or not and they do not HAVE to allow this guy into THEIR home whether he wants to see the child or not. Since you have such an attitude I suggest you move your butt OUT of your parent's home and try to make it on your own, they are trying to protect you and don't deserve a daughter like you. Maybe on your own (living in a homeless shelter or on the streets no doubt) you will appreciate your parent's home.
2006-12-24 14:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, girl, you gotta start using some PERIODS. I'm not sure what you said above exactly without the necessary punctuation. Whew! Anyway, well you've stolen the car, had unprotected sex in an unmarried state, I wouldn't trust you for a second. You've got some rough times ahead I'm afraid.
2006-12-24 13:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so stole a car and had sex! hmm! um to earn back their trust i would prbably give the guilt trick and go" so if u dont trust me then u dont love me and ill just be as happy with my boyfriend" and then say that u cant wait to move out and then theyll prbably think about it! but maybe and maybe not! it could happen.
2006-12-24 14:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Allie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is very hard to gain back show themm that it can be givin back or atleast a little bet
2006-12-24 15:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is earned its not giving....
2006-12-24 13:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋