My ex married shortly after we split. It was a really strange situation and I was happy to leave it behind me. However, we work in the same building and she seems to be trying to get me to notice her. She also seems to be keeping a pretty close eye on me. She even parks where she can see my car everyday. The worst thing is that I think I still have feelings for her. But I will not compromise my beliefs or standards with a married woman. Any ideas out there?
2006-12-24 05:38:02 · 10 answers · asked by singleguy1420 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore her attempts to get your attention. Giving her attention rewards her and encourages her. You could also discuss it with her directly, but that would possibly be perceived as the attention that she wants.
Bottom line is, she's married and is behaving like this. That would be a huge turn off to me and motivation to be short enough with her, or rude enough to her, to get her to stop. It sounds like she's a person of low integrity who is confused about what she wants. Is that what you really want?
PS - this isn't sexual harassment unless she has power over you at work and a log of these type of 'offenses' would be laughed at by the authorities. Don't waste your time on that.
2006-12-24 05:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and stick to your beliefs and standards about not becoming involved with a married woman.
2006-12-24 05:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep a log book for every time she harrasses you. then go and file a complaint of sexual harassment. then when you go to court you have evidence that she has been stalking you.
2006-12-24 05:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her completely. don't fall into her trap. She made her choice. Find a new love and move on.
2006-12-24 05:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
INever take a step backwards. it didn't work out then and it will not work out now. Move on.
2006-12-24 05:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by naya w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, 1, u broke up w/ her,its over, and 2, just tell her to stop, and that if she dosen't, ur reporting it to her husband.
2006-12-24 05:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ignore her. Move on.
2006-12-24 05:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Baphomet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants sex still. so just do it. you'll be happy for it and so will she
2006-12-24 05:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by jimbeach37 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her husband
2006-12-24 05:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay away from her
2006-12-24 05:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋