I haven't seen my ex -bf in a year so it was surprising when he said he wanted to see me and "meet up". He called me, and planned the whole thing (a movie). I assumed there would be coffee afterwards since after one year I thought he wanted to really talk & catch up. He picked up, but he never opened any doors for me, he walked ahead of me, & after the movie he just drove me home. He never walked me to my door & just said "merry Christmas". He never tried to even hug me so I just shook his hand & said bye. I felt like trash after the date, he treated me bad, like s**t. He would open doors & walk me to my door when we were going out, but I thought he would be a gentlemen again cuz of all the effort he put in to set up this date, by calling & picking me up. I thought after the movie, we would have coffee and that he would say either 1) I want u back, or 2) I wanna be friends. I thought #2 is what he would say. Neither of this happened. WHY di
2006-12-24 05:31:05 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On the way home, I finally asked him why did he wanna meet up w/ me after all this time & he said 'u know just to hang out, I wanna see u every once in awhile'. He really meant, I wanna see u every year, on my terms & I'll treat u like this. I went home & decided that I don't even wanna see him once a yr & that I had to tell him this & how he treated me bad. So I went on msn aftre the date and I told him exactly how he made me feel. I said "You know, I honestly did wanna see u, & I did kinda miss u, & even though u'r a nice guy, after the way u treated me today, the way u rushed it, & the way u said bye in the car, we don't even need to see each other once a year, we should pretend like today was our final goodbye." He was shocked & kept saying sorry. I finally just said bye & logged out. Am I right or did I overreact? and should I fix it? By the way, when we were dating it never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage.
2006-12-24 05:32:00 · update #1
Even though he deserved everything I said to him, I still kinda feel bad for just logging out on msn without letting him say bye at the end. For my own peace of mind I feel like I should call him & say I wanna end it on a good note. should I?
2006-12-24 05:33:21 · update #2
Girl don't ever go back to your past when it comes to a man. Move on. You did the right thing. Don't feel sad about it. When you meet that person who will treat you like a queen you will be kicking yourself for feeling the way you do now. Believe that.
2006-12-24 05:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by naya w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first, he was very rude to you, and to think, that was after one year. So you expect him to treat you with a little more class. Here's the thing, you don't really know what he wants. Maybe he just wanted you to like him again OR maybe he just wanted something to do...you know, intentionally treat you that way. You logged out...and he was saying sorry. Ask him to apologize face to face. Coz maybe next time, he'll say sorry BUT act like **** again.
2006-12-24 13:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by hegelian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, just MOVE ON!! This is like the 6th or 7th times now.
2006-12-24 13:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now do you remember why is your ex and not your man? He has done this before.
2006-12-24 13:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll be able to answer this q yourself when U get in 7th grade
2006-12-24 13:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Richard e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser, get rid of him, some of my friends are like that, you don't need him.
2006-12-24 13:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE SOUNDS LIKE A JERK.YOUR BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM & PLZ DON'T GO APOLOGISING TO HIM.HE'S THE ONE @ FAULT HERE NOT U.
2006-12-24 13:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by MAIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already asked this. move on already
2006-12-24 13:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by jimbeach37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋