please help me
2006-12-24 05:07:01 · 11 answers · asked by pafadnam l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She's not afraid of "loving again." She just doesn't want to marry *you*.
2006-12-24 05:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats, I hope. First, I think you should find out what is she afraid of. Keep reassuring her of how much you love and would never hurt her. Don't put pressure on her though. You could ask her to wear the ring on her right hand until she's ready. It would give her constant reminder of how much you love her and want to marry her. It would also let her know that no matter what you are willing to wait for her, if this is true. Most guys would never give the girl the ring first without an answer in fear that she would hock it or something. Me personally, I would see this as another sense of trust. If she refuses to wear the ring, then her problems may be a little more deeper than expected. Find out what she afraid of before you ask her to wear the ring on her right hand. It might turn out to be something that you may not like either. Good luck to you.
2006-12-24 13:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give this girl some time and space to process her emotions over what sounds like a difficult breakup. If she is interested when she feels better then she will be open to continuing a relationship with you. Try not to be disappointed if she doesn't sometimes it takes a long time to get over another relationship. Good luck.
2006-12-24 13:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and give her more time to get to know you, if you think there's a chance she might change her mind later. Sometimes marriage is not the be-all end-all in a relationship anyway.
2006-12-24 13:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by freebird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may hurt, but no body is afraid to love again she just is not in love with you , over time she may love you but right now shes not in love with you , I would search for somebody else
2006-12-24 21:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by Terry S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to marry you. This should have been obvious before you proposed.
2006-12-24 13:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her feelings, be patient, and she'll probably surprise you by being ready sooner than you expected. Just ask my fiance ;-)
2006-12-25 00:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was probably obvious before you asked her that she wasn't ready for such a commitment. Don't push her. Leave her alone. She needs time to heal. And please, don't take it personal. It's not you; it really IS her.
2006-12-24 14:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beg her to marry you again
2006-12-24 13:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Becky G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on her.
2006-12-27 12:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋