I love this guy and he loves me back. Though just last night he came out and told me the truth that he loves another girl too but he chooses me over her. i can't but help to think that his so called love for me is fake, or that he isnt loving me like i love him. He says the future would never be her and him but me and him. should i stay with him? break up with him? or what?
2006-12-24 04:48:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best answer to such situations is patience. Try to find out more about yourself and him such as "Am I being too possessive to drive him away" or "Why is he loving her and why does he love me" or "Why do I love him" I think there are no logical answers to the second question and third question and if there is, it may not be love but then this is my personal opinion. First and foremost respect yourself and only then will others respect you. It might help if you take your mind of this subject for a while to get a break and think over it without letting your mind go into an endless loop which will only make you both confused and frustrated. Read this book "I'm Ok You're Ok" Not sure of the author or the publisher but I think it is quite famous. It is not easy to answer your question actually since there is always a huge background behind such things and we cannot give a general answer based on a small understanding of the situation. So just be patient and think over it and give him time also to think over it.
2006-12-24 04:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Brainiac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay the problem I have with this entire scenario is that their is another female involved. IF HE LOVED YOU LIKE HE SAYS HE DOES, she would not even be in the picture. You should not even be so willing to be caught in a love triangle.
I would leave him to his own vices until he can definitively make up his mind, otherwise, this is a major game in the making of him running back and forth to you both because yall are allowing him to. You deserve YOUR OWN MAN!
2006-12-24 04:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEN YOU SHOULD ASK HIM STRAIGHT AWAY WHETHER HE LOVES YOU OR LOVES ANOTHER GIRL, IF HE SAYS YES THEN TEST HIM, IF NO, THEN TAKE IT EASY AND FIND ANOTHER GUY, DON'T BE TOO EMOTIONAL, I HAVE NOT HAD A BOYFRIEND FOR 15 YEARS, A GIRL LIKE ME HAS NOT BEEN DISSATISFIED OR LINELY, CAUSE I HAVE FRIENDS. JUST STAY COOL & CALM & WAIT FOR THE RIGHT TIME, HE MIGHT LOVE YOU REALLY, CAUSE HE TOLD YOU THE TRUTH.
2006-12-24 04:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's impossible for a man to love two girl at the same time, which means there must be one girl that he doesn't like.
2006-12-24 04:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can ever truely love one than one person in the way your talking about. If he told you it might have been his way to get out by you throwing him out rather thsn him being mean and breaking up with you.
2006-12-24 04:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just how old are you? 16? Please in another month he won't remember you. Wait to grow and be on your own and then date to find a marriage mate you would save yourself a lot of heartache, disease, maybe even death from disease. Dating isn't a game. It is serious and only for the mature.
2006-12-24 04:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont love a guy who is like this..he may say future is with u and him but it may be not with any of his loved ones....but to one whom his parents say....break up..this is not true love
2006-12-24 04:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by neha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No NO he does not love you. If he love you he wouldn,t cheated on you
If he does it now he will continue to do it. Please listen, there is somebody out there that love you. And be faithful to you. Good luck.
2006-12-24 04:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break up with him and be friends because honestly this doesn't sound right and he could just be using you as a temporary fix to get over her.. this has rebound written all over it :) :) :)
2006-12-24 04:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to choose between you and the author girl
2006-12-24 04:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by deborrah f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋