I'm 15 and I haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years and it seems like whenever im close to getting a boyfriend something goes wrong. The last three guys I tried stated this...............
The first guy said I'm too young and he's only 17 but in reality I think he just doesn't like me.
The second guy said Probably not and
The third guy said he sees me as a friend and plus he has a girlfriend.
WHAT'S GOING ON???
My last man was in the 8th grade Im a Sophomore and all my friends be telling me about they're man troubles but at least you have a man.
I feel like something's wrong and I wanna stop serching for boyfriends.
What to do??
Do I wait for that one guy or do I stilll keep looking. Cause I dont wanna look for a guy and for me to get hurt again my heart can't no more.
2006-12-24 04:35:37 · 27 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep looking. remember what doesnt hurt only makes you stronger. oDont become fixuated with serching though. the right guy will come wehn you least expect
2006-12-24 04:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by serpent_king 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with you. Just because you have or don't have a boyfriend at a certain time in your life doesn't mean you are destined to be single forever. For instance, I didn't date at ALL in high school. My first kiss didn't even happen until I was a junior in college. I used to wonder what was wrong with me and why guys didn't want to date me.
Today, I am happily married to the man of my dreams. We have been married for over a year now.
So you see, just because you aren't in a relationship right now, it doesn't mean you will always be single.
You are still young and you have many years to go before settling down. There is nothing wrong with not dating anyone at your age. If you decide that you want to take a break from dating and not go out with anyone at the moment, that is fine.
Good luck!
2006-12-24 12:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop looking. Don't worry about it. I didn't even start dating until I turned 17. I had more important things to do. Be the example. Most girls your age are experimenting with sex. By the time you're a Senior, probably 40% or more of the girls in High School will be pregnant or have a child, or worse. You're good enough as you are. Having a boyfriend won't make you more popular, or a better person. Strive to be who you were meant to be. Immerse yourself in the world. Play sports, sing in the quire, participate in student body. Do all of the things you can do, and when you least expect it, he'll come right along and sweep you off of your feet.
2006-12-24 12:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Aha! I Caught You! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are only 15... save yourself the worries and anxieties and just have fun. I am 26 years old and please believe when I say that boyfriends are more of a pain than anything else. Having a boyfriend isn't going to make your life happy or valuable. The things you accomplish on your own plus the company of good friends and family will bring more joy than any man.
Also, I need to warn you. If you want a good man, you can't just settle for anyone who gives you attention. There are a lot of men out there who have no problem standing you up, using you for sex, taking your money, and driving your car. When you are OLD ENOUGH to date, you need to sniff out these guys before the right one comes along. Don't stay with a person just for the sake of having a man. Sorry if I am rambling but please don't let this run your life..
Good luck
2006-12-24 12:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by mdaneshrsenior9990272 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but if you think your heart has been broken to the point of you not being able to take it again you are living in cloud cookoo land hun,,you,re 15 and have little or no experience,,you dont know what sort of person will make you happy,,you havent had the good,bad or ugly yet and if you are not prepared for more heartache as you get older you will find yourself single for a long time,,,,,,you find your prince by kissing frogs,,not avoiding them because there are some very good looking frogs out there who are slimy on the inside and some are even poisonous.you are 15 and wanting all you know is coming to you now but unfortunately you will have to wait like everyone else.enjoy being single when you are and enjoy having a boyfriend when you do but just keep in mind that they are probably the man of the hour not the man of your life,,he is still dating women who dont suit him either because like you,,he feels he knows what he wants.have some fun and dont doubt yourself,,when he comes he may just be wearing binmans clothes and he just hides his princely crown underneath.
2006-12-24 12:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right person comes along when you least expect it. Focus on the positives about yourself, do things to enrich your own life, and, when the time is right, the right man will come along. It's better to find a quality person to spend your time with rather than someone just to fill a space. If you are happy with yourself, others will be drawn to you. Just remember, at 15, you are not very likely to find THE ONE. Just keep trucking through, and take each relationship for what it is worth and what you learned from it. And, remember, the right man will come along when the time is right!! Good Luck!
2006-12-24 12:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly Jones-Fair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First sweetie YOUR FIFTH-TEEN. you have all the time in the world to date. You should not be thinking about "the one" You never had a "man" you had young boy's, your a young girl. Focus on your school work. Hang out with your friends. The more you look for a boyfriend the closer you will come to getting pregnant.
2006-12-24 12:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by xxdelicious_l1psxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,
You are very young. If I was you, I would focus on your life, define what things are important to you, spend time reflecting on who you are and what you want in your life. The right guy will come along, but be prepared to wait. And, as for getting hurt... it happens to the best of us... it is a part of living and learning. This will pass, I guarentee.
2006-12-24 12:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by EM-water2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you have lots of time...hang out with your friends, join some social groups, concentrate on school, (something I didn't do and really regretted latter), take time to experiment with different hobbies and find something you really like.... It should not take a man in your life to make you happy. You should make yourself happy. This is from an older, wiser, been there kind of gal. Merry Christmas
2006-12-24 12:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell there isnt nothin wrong with urself. nd if u dnt wna get hurt u just gotta b urself. some people have more boyfriends then others. let boiz come 2 u not the other way round. if there interested they shud let u kno but if its yu and ur not there type then u will just get hurt so just be urself nd let them *** 2 u. im sure things will get betta plus ur only 15 . gd luck x!
2006-12-24 12:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋