Is it really possible to explain WHY you love someone? I think that there are thoughts and feelings that are unexplainable at times that come from our baggage (and could therefore be explained if they were properly explored) but don't think love can ever really be one of them. It just happens. Anyone disagree?
2006-12-24 04:30:59 · 29 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOT a simple question
NOT a simple topic
Explaining why one person loves another person would be about as easy as explaining brain surgery over the phone.
Love is one of those crazy things that you can spend a lifetime talking about, but never get to the point where you can say, "OH, I GET IT NOW!"
2006-12-24 04:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can explain why you love someone if you want to sit there for a long period of time to have to explain your past and what youve been through. Plus there is never one reason why you love someone there are many things that come into play when you fall in love. Past loves/lusts, what you were taught, and what you think you want. Thats why many say no you cant explain because it can just get to complicated.
2006-12-24 04:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it can be explained. It does take some thinking about, but a person in love has sat down many times and thought about why they are in love with that special person so it is nothing to answer that question.
2006-12-24 04:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I agree that for sometimes for odd reasons, it just happens. I've been there. I've found myself caring for a man and asking myself why.???They don't give you much to go on and your needs are not being met, but yet you still care.??? The only logical answer I can come up with is, they stole a little piece of your heart and you really like them for who they are and how you feel when your in their company. ?????? OR maybe, we all must of fell down and bumped our heads?..lol ;)
2006-12-24 05:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only explanation that maybe comes close to "why" we love a person is "to be loved back". Face it, we humans are selfish retards. Anything we do for the person whom we say we love are actually to gain mutual actions, and that is to be loved back.
Then again.. it's just me talking..
2006-12-24 04:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Zenithia Victora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. there are those feelings that are just unexplainable. but there are also little things about the person that you love that makes you love them more and more
2006-12-24 04:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by mindi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i disagree, I think love can be explained and why you love someone, there will be a lot of reasons but, you should be able to explain it.
2006-12-24 04:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Love penetrates where reason cannot enter. That's why illicit love affairs exist. People, when in love, could not think well and are often enslaved by their emotions.
2006-12-24 05:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by brainyluscious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the most immpossible to explain cause if u love her than the feeling is so stange u cant find words to explain it so if thats the case its a good thing
2006-12-24 04:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by animefan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it is possible to give a precise reason as to why you love someone.
2006-12-24 04:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋