This guy I have had a crush on for a while was recently informed that I like him. Before he knew, we would talk in class, and online and laugh and stuff, but now that he knows, he is completely avoiding me.(Except for one day where he randomly talked to me) but basically avoiding me, to the extent of blocking me on msn. Why? Can't he just be flattered and move on. It wasnt like I was expecting anything from this just cuz he knows i like him. I was simply informing him, and now hes gone all weird.
2006-12-24 04:17:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are stupid, moronic creatures, who we would have absolutely no use for or interest in at all, if it weren't for the fact that some of them are cute enough to make us forget their obvious faults.
That being said, Dan is a loser and we should kill him.
2006-12-24 04:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess of Everything 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that! Just walk up to him and say "Hey, yeah it's true that I like you, but don't let it get weird between us. I;d rather be friends than nothing at all. And besides, I can talk to you and I think you're a nice guy" something along those lines. Just be honest. Let him know that it's alright with you and things should move on. If he's still weird about it, let him be. Who knows? Maybe he's avoiding you because he likes you too. Guys are strange. Good Luck! =D
2006-12-24 12:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by Aha! I Caught You! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks that you want him so bad you'll stop at nothing to get him. Why?? Because when you tell a man you like him his ego becomes so inflamed he starts to think he is gods gift to every woman on the planet. And is just sure that your not the only, or best woman to "want" him. Now you've got him fighting you off with a stick so he can go pursue the woman he's always wanted.
NEVER NEVER be the first to pursue, always get them to come to you.
2006-12-24 12:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy doesn't feel the same he may be afraid of leading you on. (showing any interest or even being human towards you could cause you to think there was a chance--he's immature)
When he sees you are not going after him he may calm down. He may also be unsure of what to do, maybe he isn't used to this kind of situation.
2006-12-24 12:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He blocked you on msn? Thats harsh. To me that would say that he's not interested. I would try to move on, or just come clean with him, say that you do like him but that you don't want things to be weird. Say that you'd like to go back to being friends.
2006-12-24 12:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know how to act. Maybe he wants to be friends or very shy.
2006-12-24 12:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's imature and you should be glad you know that about him now. move on love. don't waste anymore time than you have already.
2006-12-24 12:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it as a hint....stay away and quit forcing yourself on him. He obviously doen't like you in that way.
2006-12-24 12:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by Dick Richards 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he thinks you're stalking him.
2006-12-24 12:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋