2006-12-24 04:15:48 · 12 answers · asked by hopeful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I doubt if it's because of you. It's hard to know what to tell you. Try talking to both of them and conveying your feelings, if they're reasonable. If you can do this, they might possibly awaken to the harm they're doing to you and to themselves.
2006-12-24 04:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even it is because of you, leave them there, they will resolve their fights within themselves. You be a good girl and love both of them, dispute and fights are normal in any family. You cannot do any thing they are matured and grown up they know for sure what they are doing. If you want to do something stay away from their fights they will be together by night. If the problem persist come back again after few days.
2006-12-24 12:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not "because" of you - EVER! If you come up in their fights it is because you are the most important thing in the world to them - but they are not fighting because of you they are fighting because of something between them. I'm sorry this is hurting you. Talking with your parents will be a good idea. I suspect they don't realize how their fighting is affecting you.
2006-12-24 12:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Another Garcia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, it's normal to consider yourself the center of the universe when you are not.
It would be nice if you could just get on with your own life and love both of your parents for themselves. My advice is to make this your long term goal.
2006-12-24 12:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by mince42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Why do you think its because of you, what do you do that is bad? or do you think it is because they can't share you or something??
2. Talk to them seperately and try to figure it out, keep it cool though, don't get all emotional, stay neutral.
3. If all of it gets too overwhelming, talk to someone that you are close to besides them and/or try and do something to get your mind off it for a while until you are calm enough to try to figure it out.
Good Luck :]
2006-12-24 12:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy Grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think it is because of you? If you aren't in trouble in school, or in other areas of your life then I'm pretty sure it isn't you.
Maybe you should ask them if they are fighting because of you. At the very least it might help them understand how their fighting impacts you.
2006-12-24 12:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by inkantra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pure baloney!! THEY might try to blame you, but it is not your fault!! You are not to blame for your parents' failure to get along. And you should gently tell them that you are not going to be their "fal guy." Tell them you love them, and you want them to stop fighting, but if they don't, you will not accept blame!!
2006-12-24 12:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by jkc19452004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do not fight over you! They fight because of weakness in their relationship. Do not ever blame yourself for it dear.
2006-12-24 12:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not because of you.
You could talk to them, separately, then together, and figure out if there's anything you can do; but ultimately it's up to them.
2006-12-24 12:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by eldad9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids always tend to think the parents fight cause of them... but is barely ever that, is always cause of money or something else...
2006-12-24 12:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋