2006-12-24 03:35:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You just tell him.
Too bad if he doesn't want kids. He helped make the baby, he should be able to take responsibility for his actions.
2006-12-24 03:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Annamarie 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You gotta tell him My husband didn't want kids ever but when he found out I was preganat and saw that first sonogram it all changed. We have 2 kids now and I've finally had to put my foot down and say no more kids (at least for now...LOL) He's have one after another if I let him (and this is a man that swore he woud never have kids or change a diaper!!!) You've heard the phrase "A baby changes everything"
2006-12-24 05:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Luv_My_Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf needs to grow up. if he didnt want kids he should have been more careful. just sit down with him and have a chat, tell him how you feel. my sister had the same problem her bf didnt want to keep the baby but as soon as she was born he was the happiest person on earth. your bf will come around trust me good luck
2006-12-24 03:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unmarried women have to be very careful on this avenue. BEFORE you tell him make a list of all the people who have witnessed your relationship, make sure you have his current address and the addresses of his closest relatives. Have his work address and his bosses name. Above all else, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE HIS SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBER!!!
With him not being your husband, he may try to bolt when you tell him. Plus you will need all the above information to help prove he is the father. Be prepared for this because you may have to sue to prove paternity and file for child support.
2006-12-24 09:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by lijwil 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how do you know he doesnt want kids?? if you knew that then why werent you two careful...females need to think more...damn. there is only one way....straight out...but be prepared....it might suck to hear what hes got to say...but your the one whose gonna make the ultimate choice..so i guess he really has no say...men need to be more careful...damn!
2006-12-26 18:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by thatgirluknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you just sit down & tell him. If he didn't wanna have kids he shouldn't be having sex!
2006-12-24 05:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by mamabens 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...i guess u just tell him and be strong while saying it. if u want the baby, u have to keep yr head up.
2006-12-24 03:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by disco ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him im sure he will understand he has no choice but to understand that he made this baby too!!
good luck:)
2006-12-24 03:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by shorty_2_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, your going to ba a daddy. Just tell him. It's his, he can deal with it.
2006-12-24 04:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by ccdispatch911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to
2006-12-24 03:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋